Well said, how much better would the recruitment scenes have been if there had been some legit build up / lead-in to it. The scene with Killi would have been exponentially better if, after he helped her with the initial piece of her quest, they had her getting sexually aggressive with him and showing appreciation with a proper lead-in to to the bedroom, full on undressing and transitioning between the start of the scene, to some foreplay, to actual sex, and then finish in bed cuddling...that's how you add context and some emotional attachment for the player. Without it, the scene feels detached and incomplete.
I truly feel this lack of proper narrative connection and development with the sex scenes is going to have a negative effect on Studio FOW's reputation if they don't address this.