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I agree, I've been here since 2016, I had other accounts, I asked them to delete them for me, sometimes it got to a point where it became impossible to stay here. I stayed out for a while, after the dust settled I came back. I try to get involved as little as possible. My comments are largely to clarify doubts, but unfortunately I still find myself arguing, and sometimes I end up saying some things I shouldn't. There are some out there who really know how to take people seriously.I deleted my message myself.
Sometimes, I write down my thoughts and frustrations without thinking.
And, I also know that comments like that can actually act like an bullseye for those kind of people.
If you say you dislike something, you always have those people that intentionally do it more and more.
But, yeah. There is a reason why most developers tend to stay away from this website.
Not because of the Piracy, because we've all pirated in our lives at some stage.
But the hate that runs through this website at moments.
(I am not talking about everyone, of course. There are plenty of normal/kind people here as well.
Hate that have caused developers to leave this website or even caused developers to stop developing because they could take it anymore.
(And, I'm not talking about personal hate. I'm talking about people hating on something that you are working 80+ a week on, and even consumes all your free time. That project that you work on with passion and love.)
It's a dagger straight into your heart when that happens.
The more passion you put into something, the more it hurts when people hate on it, and I think a lot of people know that I put a lot of passion in Sweet Affection.
And, those same people who spread so much hate around, they are also the surprised/angry ones when a developer stops when most of the time, they themselves are responsible for that.
Now, I'm not saying that I'm going to stop, that's never going to happen.
But, there will come a time when the hate becomes too much, where me and my team ends up leaving this website.
And, I think no one wants that to happen, right?
I mean, back when I was playing a lot of H games here, I loved seeing a developer actually being a part of the community and helping out.
I understand why the mods can't really keep an eye out anymore though.
The website has grown so much the past 2 years that they are doing the best they can.
Even though I know it's never going to happen, it would be nice if people just treat each other with a bit of respect and kindness.
No one likes feeling like crap and no one wants to log in this website and feel down.
We all want to feel happy and smile.
(But, hormones and being frustrated is, unfortunately a very bad combination leading into very impulsive actions.)
Thank you for your kind words though.
People like you are the reason why I'm still here on this website.
The fans, the people that love our work and even the people with constructive advice.
I want as many people as possible to enjoy our work after all, and knowing someone likes it... that makes me happier than you can realize.![]()
But I try to avoid people like that as much as possible, I even apologized for the facepalm I gave to one there, but there are times when patience really leaves us.
There are few developers who are active here, some come and offend them. I don't know, I know it's complicated for moderation, but I think the punishments for this type of conduct should be tougher.
Anyway, thank you for this game that I like so much, and I hope you can put up with these ungrateful types, and really care about who cares about you.