you totally understand me the opposite.
What make a good NTR game? It will never be a good NTR story if the girl is a slut nympho from the start, or if the girl get corrupted by the antagonist who isn't even trying. The more the couple are bonded to each other, the more the two loves each other, the tastier the fruit will be when the girl get inevitably corrupted in the end.
What I want to see is that Asuna tried to fight against her lust to Inoda with her love to kirito, but no matter how much she tried, the fate makes her fall from body to mind, and become cumdump only for Inoda as we all already knew from the beginning.
Why I like that her affection to Kirito goes back to 100. It's because it's a really good way to tell a story where the female protagonist struggle between her body lust to Inoda with her mind affection to Kirito. I don't mean for "desperate to take back a girl". No, not at all. I want to see her struggle. But no matter how much she try, she can't change the end story. And this is not reflected by the affection meter, it's beyond that, which is called fate(or Fujino's taste).