Nope, and I think the majority of players do neither.
Kirito is an established character to begin with, even if this version of him is almost nothing like the OG...
Anyway, just the fact he isn't some custom-nameable faceless MC makes self-inserting already more difficult, and his sheer stupidity and blindness in this game don't help

And Inoda is just too much of a wicked disgusting pig, can't imagine many people associating with him voluntarily...
In fact, one reason I enjoy this one more than most other NTR games I've tried, is that I'm honestly kinda jealous of canon OG Kirito, so it's kind of satisfying to see him lose at something for a change.
I still strongly dislike Inoda anyway, but that Inoda is so unlikable is exactly what makes the L for Kirito bigger, so it's a net win for me.
That's IMO also one of the main misconceptions many NTR haters (or Netori-only advocates) make:
They're usually people who always self-insert as the MC and just assume all NTR game players do that too, which is why they cannot fathom why anyone would enjoy NTR.
When in fact the majority of NTR game players probably
don't self-insert, at least not to the same degree.
And if you don't really self-insert, it's always something happening
to someone else, regardless of whose POV it's shown from.
I'm pretty sure that for a lot of the more casual NTR players (counting myself in here), NTR is only enjoyable precisely by disassociating like that and treating it more like watching a TV show or something.
Same here.
Asuna's slow descent from being all prim and proper and a little prude with a "perfect" boyfriend, to a cheating, sex-addicted, loose slut tied to an absolute lowlife with nothing going for him other than his sexual performance, is what I'm mostly here for.
And yeah, the brainwash angle was disappointing, in part because it felt a bit unnecessary.
I honestly think that Fujino should've just let Asuna agree to raw IRL sex in the hotel from sheer lust, maybe after a final FOG battle hidden sex sequence that made her so horny she couldn't say no to creampies anymore.