Isn't it strange that the director of the company is sitting in the supply department? Maybe she's the director of the supply department? Although in my opinion, the director is Asuna's father, so Kyoko is the acting director.
Otherwise, yes, you're right. Even now, when Kirito and Asuna are in different cities, they can spend time in the game, just the two of them. There's a restaurant, a park, and a sauna in the FOG city. Fujino would at least somehow show their romantic relationship, but, in fact, both of them are not interested in it at all.(Fujino seemed to have forgotten about it) They only go together (and with Inoda) to places where Asuna can have sex with Inoda, even if Kirito is nearby. I have only one explanation - if they (Asuna and Kirito) have a full-fledged romance, then it's not clear at all how Asuna can fall in love with Inoda. Fujino, apparently, completely sacrificed the relationship between them in order to accelerate the development of the plot and the progress of corruption.
In general, I agree. About the blowjob while Kirito receives the package. The most annoying thing is that there are no prerequisites for this - Asuna said that there are no IRL actions, only in the game. And then he breaks his word. And she gives an IRL blowjob as if it were something ordinary, as if the players weren't waiting for a more detailed and epic scene for this. Casual and simple. Fujino fucked up this scene. But the most important thing is that Kirito and Asuna only communicate for a few minutes in real life, but Asuna chose those few minutes to give a blowjob. Fujino could have added this scene for viewing in RECT, but no. From Asuna's side, it looks like a spit in Kirito's face. Even though she spoke so little and rarely with her IRL husband, she couldn't resist it. The scene itself is good (although a POV would be nice), but all the background and plot validity of this scene is very bad.
As for Yui. Well, Asuna considers her her child, I think her main goal is to get her back. Judging by the statuses, sex in the game is still just fun and relaxation for Asuna. I think sex will be necessary for Asuna only in real life. The game is just entertainment anyway. In the last update, it was said that Asuna lacks the feeling of the game in real life. So I think getting Yui back in the game is still the main goal.