I didn't mean to imply at all that the scene itself shouldn't have happened. I only wanted to express that NLT usually had a different (less subtle) approach. That is, a first physical approach including grinding or satisfying the other person, a titjob, a blowjob, and then generally sex. Here, the relationship between Julia and Ethan was built up more subtly, but no less intensely. Because my brain is still used to NLT's old-school approach, I was personally very (positively surprised) by the scene. However, I highly welcome this change in how relationships are built, because it (not just with NLT) usually proceeds very uniformly, making it very predictable and boring. It's as if people can only have sex with each other after they've explored every square centimeter of the other person's skin. Therefore, I completely agree with you and hope that this form of pacing and interpersonal relationship development continues. Of course, it should remain individual, as a Julia, frustrated with her married life, was naturally more receptive to sex anyway, and other characters might not take this direction so quickly. If the dynamic remains this way, I'm happy, because this monotonous approach has always bothered me.