....how people can defend this kind of behaviour....
What kind of behaviour?
Not keeping the nonpaying public informed?
Not meeting deadlines put forward by randoms?
If you're trying to put forward an argument then try to be clear.
People like @Still996 is white knight bro. He won't understand.
I'm personally think Uber did a mistake by giving false hope to his patrons.
I bet his patrons won't mad if he just said "we need 2-3 months for the next update"
White knight, Show me the promise Uber made then I might back you up,
I don't know anythng about Uber or his practices.
(and I don't particularly care, I haven't spent any money, so I've got way more than my moneys worth)
I'm arguing against entitled assholes who think the saying is "
Do Look a gift horse in the mouth (Then whine about it)"
So far I've seen no promises, just a bunch of randoms making guesses then bitching when they aren't fulfilled.
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As for people who have given money, that is a different matter, I don't know enough about what happens behind the Patreon wall to comment on that.