You assume everything that was said and communicated happened only on F95.
No, I don't. I've been active on the developer's discord. I have never subscribed, so I don't have access to the subscriber channel on discord nor any patreon posts. I am familiar with many of the Patreon posts that has been shared here (and some I have found on Kemono party). However, you are the one saying something different than what has been presented previously but have not show proof from any of them to support your memory.
NTR hints were present, but I enjoyed the art as many did. It being a secondary fetish (his direct words) that it wouldn't be a focus led me and others to believe it would remain low priority.
It has remained a low priority - not getting shit for content for nearly 5 years. And only now getting half of one update and nothing planned for the next. What you mean is that you believed there would be "no content" even though that was never promised that way.
I think devs should respect their own words and live up to them
I agree with you on this. However where I differ is I believe that developers should be true to themselves and their vision and their interests rather than sticking a finger in the air and changing direction all the time simply because a wind blows - including the special interests of a small vocal subgroup, or because a fan may have a few extra bucks and wants their waifu to get some extra storyline time.
That is a huge problem with Uberpie. He has no sense of commitment, to himself or his words. He changes direction constantly. From having netorare/ntr content to reducing it to appease some supporters/fans. From saying never to make "mega updates" ever again, only to having "mega updates" taking half a year or longer again and again. From (poorly) attempting to have players choose different characters to play the game from to simply leaving it in and never addressing it again nor fixing it so that it isn't a weird, confusing part of the game. And deciding to add "sandbox like" elements that have was shittily done, not improved for the past year and a half - with sandbox characters existing in multiple places at the same time, and at the same time as a quest task character being in a completely other location (or even.. in the same location in some instances). Then deciding to start up on the netorare/ntr route - but not at the beginning from where it branches off - but at day 145 and confusing players again. Now, using AI art that is trained on his original work - but not revising/editing/correcting the resulting art - leaving terrible results of fingers, extra skin, off-model art, etc. Let's not forget not having sufficient commitment to actually fixing problems that have been in release after release after release - simply just moving forward with the problems continuing onward.
But hey, it's his product and the commitment he appears to have is to throw shit at the wall and go with whatever sticks at the moment - and just keep flinging shit while people eat it up.