The conundrum is this: he (the MC) opened the door for Anne's adultery and then what? Some people can handle freedom, some can't. Some experiments work out well, some go awry. When you're playing with fire you'd better expect the worst.
I've played every route of this game and in total, the dev has given Anne much more of an easy go of things. She has adopted an entitled attitude and expects things to go her way. In the sharing route there may be some hope for their relationship, but in the other routes, things are spinning out of control and realistically if they don't pull back it will be a crash and burn.
But it's a game and when I play these games I rarely place myself in the roll of 'empathizer'. I almost always play as the corrupter as I am interested in how the dev has written the script to communicate the chaos that often accompanies relationships (the push and pull of such things as temptation, hedonism, egoism, etc). As I am older and have been in both great and dreadful relationships, I find most authors here do not understand the nuances of such things. Some get close, though.
I understand your point and I agree on many things, but empathizing is not something that I can control and close as if it were a door, I mean, if it were up to me, I would stop empathizing and play these types of games going down the road darker, but its not that simple, and it really affects me emotionally.
Even so, I have played until chapter 8, and I think I have reached the top that I could take, which is to see how she is able to cheat on her husband with her own father.. I understand that it is a game and the dev seeks the greatest perversions for his public because in the end this type of fetish is forbidden or immoral and everyone can see these things or at least fantasize about it, but believe me, it affects me in a bad way, and no matter how much I repeat myself it is a simple game the thing will not change unfortunately..
U know the worst? I really like the game in which it has quality, Annes design I LOVE it, and really, if the NTR were avoidable AT ALL (that is, if there was a purely faithful route, another for swinger and the other for NTR) it would surely be one of my favorite games easily, but when a game forces me to have to accept according to what decisions in the game annoys me, and as I said, by empathizing with the MC, this only makes it worse. Even so, I understand who likes the game, it has quality, but I still believe that it is a game totally designed for people who dont care the feelings in relationships, NTR lovers or who like to be cucks, and to people who never empathize with the MC.
Ps the same thing happens to me with the game of Annas exciting affection, great game, but very badly managed because there really is only one "path" if you are looking to see sex scenes ..