EDIT: It
seems that it is possible to choose a path that makes Anne more honest and avoid the father stuff. There are several opportunities at the beginning of that relationship to stop her from cheating (with that character). The line between 'adventurous couple' and all-out cheating wife fuckfest is blurred in this novel.
Edit (again): Nope. She cheats regardless (doesn't tell her husband of many of the guys she is with).
It is not that it is her responsibility. Nor the fact he is getting laid. It is that the agreement with her husband in this "open" relationship is that he gets to watch. Granted, she breaks this rule nearly every time, including the first time by only acknowledging later that he watched without her knowing.
The bigger point of contention is that she is off fucking anyone and everyone, then gets pissed when he doesn't tell her about a girl...then continues to lie after promising not to lie. Because this is a work in progress, I am giving the benefit of the doubt to the author that these issues will be addressed and resolved however he sees fit.
That is certainly making me question wtf is happening. Is the story about an open relationship or a cheating wife?