they define sexual violence incest, bestiality, rape, sexualization of minors, which my game doesn't contain, but after 4 generic e-mails I got 1 answer that said and I quote "As our Community Guidelines currently stand, depictions of sexualized activities where characters are not conscious and therefore unable to consent are considered sexual violence and not allowed."
which I think refers to the scene where you fap to your landlady while she's sleeping in the prologue rework.
personally, I don't have an issue with adjusting and "fixing" my content. but the way patreon handles this situation is so disrespectful, I honestly don't want to be part of it. not even trying to discuss this matter with me first, no. just shoot and ask questions later. and their support system is another nightmare of its own. no phone numbers to call. emails take at least 1 day to get a reply. discord support just tells you to use the e-mail support. frustrating company.