just like video games an AVN can make some people see certain activies as being totaly acceptable and go out and do those things
No offense, but it's people who think like you that allow this kind of responsibility transfer for people that are that dumb, and screw up the society/life for everyone else... I'm sorry, but if you are someone who sees something in a video game, a movie, or whatever else and think "ahh, it's ok to do that, I'll go do that", you need help and you should not be a part of the society with freedom to make your own choices. You don't need rules for the rest of the society so that actual responsible people cant enjoy their fantasies or do what they want when they know they aren't hurting anyone.
What people like you don't understand is that people like that are SOONER OR LATER going to do something stupid and hurt someone, regardless of whether they see it somewhere or not. A fantasy from a movie or a game is just a tool that they used this time to do it/rely on it. Instead of blaming the games and movies, blame those people, blame their parents, blame the school system, etc., for not raising them with adequate morality system or not locking them up for realizing that something is wrong with them. Don't punish ME because they exist, that is unfair.
And yes, as far as that subject goes, there ARE women who fantasize about being raped... About 40% of them actually have that fantasy (it's suspected that it's more than 40%, but due to the controversial nature of such a question, it's believed that some of them wouldn't be honest enough (even with themselves) to answer it with "yes"). The only difference compared to men's fantasy of that nature is that most of them, in that fantasy, are being forced to sex by someone they know at least on some level, not by a complete stranger (as in, not get raped on a street by a random guy), yet, some still have even that kind of a fantasy too. And believe it or not, there is a perfectly logical evolutionary reason for having that fantasy, both for men, as well as women.