Everything about MC is completely insufferable. He's ugly as sin, looking like a rotten orange that's been in the sun for days. And he throws a fucking hissy fit any time he's told to do anything in any capacity.
Like, give me a fucking break. He's a giant manchild that was training for 10 years, patience and gratitude should be part of his personality. Not bitch and moan because he didn't "choose" to marry a princess. Just screams wanna-be "alpha male mentality" inferiority complex.
I have to wonder what game you're playing, because it's not this one. The MC is respectful, honorable and diligent. He does almost everything Athagan asks him to do, as well as doing things for his harem ladies and others.
You had to struggle to find two examples of what you're claiming, and they're both pretty ridiculous.
"Please don't make all the maids pregnant at the same time" (As they are actually running out of money and couldn't afford new help ad infinitum)
"BUT DADDY I WANT TO FINISH INSIDE THATS THE BEST PART BOO HOO"
This was a funny, bantering conversation between several people. Athagan asked him not to get all the maids pregnant at the same time because Athagan's a bit of a prude. You'll notice that Athagan's
wife immediately contradicts him and points out that the MC's opinion also matches that of the predominant priesthood of the world, and that she agrees with the MC. Pregnancy and babies are vitally important for the future in this world, and the MC knows it.
”MC Show me how you make love" (the QUEEN tells him to do as he has a hard on anyway)
"GRRR I DON'T LIKE BEING TOLD WHAT TO DO EVEN THOUGH IM AN ORPHAN TAKEN IN BY A LORD OUT OF KINDNESS."
The queen was acting wildly out of character, and was being incredibly pushy/creepy. The MC rejected her because of that, and he was right to do so, because
she was literally being magically influenced.
Meanwhile, the MC goes out of his way to do things he's asked by everyone he cares about in the game, and even does everything the Queen wants him to do
once she's back in her right mind, except the one thing he'd already stated was his hard line that he would not cross.
(Also, calling either of those spots where the MC asserts himself 'a hissy fit' is laughable and a wild exaggeration at best, and directly disingenuous at worst.)
I honestly don't know why you're coming out so hard against this game, unless you're a big femdom fan and hate pregnancy (both of which are very good reasons to hate this game, but are also even better reasons to not play it in the first place).