IRL, I do not believe in cheating. If you feel like you need to fuck someone else, either break up with the person you are with or see if they might be open to you screwing others, either an open relationship for both, swinging or them becoming a cuckold(ress). Why would you wat to hurt your partner? If they deserve it by being an asshole or something, then just leave them to get away from their behavior.
Bit different when playing games. In that case, I always try to play the bull, either in a harem game where I am stealing other guys women aka netori or in either a nts or ntr game where there is only one guy that the girl either fucks with her partners knowledge or I am the one guy with whom she cheats. If the game does not allow us to rename the bull/other guy, then I use urm for renpy games to manually rename them.
There is a reason behind my kinks when it comes to the games, based on my real life, to an extent. I actually spent 15 years as a swinger. Me and my two partners(first one got out of it after about 6 years, to settle down and have some kids) would do couple swaps, MFF threesomes, either regular MFF or for a cuckold guy or just letting people watch us fuck. We never cucked each other. I don't hate on those that choose that path, just wasn't for me or my girls. The two times we did a MFF threesome while the husband watched, one was really into it and had an even bigger dong than me but not much stamina, he shot his load without even touching his junk, while watching me rail his wife, who was in turn eating out my girl. The other "would be" cuckold couldn't even get it up and seemed to be upset, at himself, afterward. I think he pictured it being something he would love but reality is often far different than what you imagine.
My time in the lifestyle came to an end when covid did a number on me physically. Damn near killed me. That is when I started playing these type of games, to sorta relive my "glory days", to an extent. A say to an extent because, again, I do not believe in cheating, irl. Also, it is really not allowed in the lifestyle, at least not when not comes to parties, gatherings or clubs. Cheating causes too much drama and those that live in the lifestyle very, very often do not want any drama that might threaten to expose them to the public. Many of us were/are powerful and/or respected people in the public and like it or not, would be unrightfully judged for doing what makes them happy. Fucking puritanical hypocrites.
