- Mar 26, 2021
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This may not be the best place to ask, but I'm going to be anyway.
For those of you who consume JOIs where you have to use your anus, are you able to have an orgasm as described in the video? For example, in the Hentirella videos, towards the end, the video tells you to have an assgasm. I've been trying for a long time to achieve an orgasm with just anal stimulation, and I use the JOIs almost as a guide to achieve this. I've never had great success at it, and I'd like to get some tips or points of view from people on similar journeys.
I've studied and experimented a lot on the subject (I've been trying for around two years, and I've read Reddit guides on the subject), and I believe my problem is related to the fact that I become impatient, that is, I want to have the orgasm, but I still need to dedicate more time. From what I've read, it takes a long time to reach orgasm, at least the first time, and since I practically only consume JOIs, it gets complicated. With all the JOIs with anal I've tried, I get close to the end, and I'm still a long way from achieving the final orgasm.
In short, any tips to help me finish anal JOIs as they suggest, or some suggestions of JOIs that made you have an orgasm? Thanks for your attention, and I apologize if I asked this in the wrong place.
1. Yes. There is very little advice to give, you really have to just try stuff and see what works for you. For example, I need hard and rough (like really rough), other people need the opposite. Just like anything related to sex, a lot of it is mental stimulation.
2. Most of hentirella's videos have terrible consistency: the toy sizes, progression, ... just don't add up. I can understand you're not having an orgasm with those. Look for the "Anal Instructions by Analana" video, it's not hentai but I think it's very good buildup etc to try have your first orgasm.
3. Some people ejaculate and some do not. You can have an orgasm without ejaculation, they're not the same thing, so don't focus on that. If it's expected you ejaculate, just ignore the creator's expectation.
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