something that repeat itself on NTR and not on "cheating" is the humilliation of the "main character" or the guy/girl being cheated on, while "cheating" is mostly done from the perspective of the one doing the cheating, cause his/her partner doesnt matter, in NTR the partner does matter to a point where, at least for me, is a turn off, this game is NTR, and plays around Mary´s partner being bad at bed, having a small dick and etc etc, the sex scenes are allways about Mary not wanting to cheat on MC, but doing it anyway, while slowly getting corrupted, so most likely in the future there is gonna be a big reveal of this and a sad MC watching Mary´s enjoy the fat guys dick, text book NTR. If like u say, most guys insert themself as the guy cucking, then all the humilliation would be unnecesary, but that is not the case, cause then "cheating" and "NTR" wont be a different kink. and Netorare and Netori, are also two different kinks. This game, like u say, feels more like Netori, cause people now like the fat bastard, and that is why, now, u need Arato xD, but u right, my perception is shallow, i really dont have much knowledge about this subject, i like cheating, not ntr, so i gladly let u hold the tittle of cuck sage, i definitily not going to fight u for it