If she is not in the harem page at yarra's menu then she is not in the harem
Her quest either has no value towards her virginity status or it does and i do not know about it (never really had a bad run)
The main thing that is keeping her virgin is the direct results of the gawnfall? council and if you have chosen a very specific choice, or may also have to do with the results of the damn thing as it has 3 routes that can fuck u over royally at any time
Let's assume you have checked all the marks needed for her recruitment, you need to view 2 scenes where she is doing unholy things to herself (100% rituals) in her bed (just walk into her bedroom area) and after that you can talk to her and it should trigger, if she tells you to fuck off from her bedroom then ye, u fucked up and need to wait for like? idk
She will join you later but i cannot tell you jack about it as i do not know this route nor have i ever seen anyone fuck up with sarai :l
You can always upload ur save here and some smart person can look over at it and see what ya fucked up.
