1. Enabling their kinks will have a different consequence that is neither good nor bad. So don't worry about it.
2. Right now you're stuck with them. Our current focus is a rework of their kinks so that they're more nuanced. When it's finished you can have a Laura who is a dom in bed but won't stalk you, or a Laura who will stalk you but won't be a dom in bed.
What I was talking about is that we really want to be a choices and consequences game. People will learn of you by reputation.
If you're talking to like 6 girls and you tell them all exclusively what they want to hear, that behavior is horribly inconsistent and you may get accused of being fake.
Heroic, Reluctant, and Bitter Nulls can romance all girls. The tone will simply be different and you'll be rewarded, not with exclusive scenes, but the tone of your relationship will be different.
I'll use Colossus as an example since this has already been mentioned in the discord more than once so the writers won't kill my family if I talk about it.
In Chapter 2 he'll react to you differently depending on how often you chose a certain answer.
Heroic: He'll see you as a good guy and an equal.
Reluctant: He'll see you as someone who is insecure and attempts to be a role model.
Bitter: He'll see you as a punk that is ungrateful for everything Xavier and the X-Men have been doing for you. (Don't worry this won't hurt you, he'll come to understand your perspective after a few interactions)
Inconsistent: He won't know what to make of you and be unsure of how to approach interacting with you.
All of this may also influence a potential relationship with Magik, Colossus' sister, if we decide to add her to the game.