Avoiding stuff you don't like keeps you lonely.
Avoiding stuff you don't like keeps you happy.
There is no value to exposing yourself to things you actively dislike, unless you're given an incentive to get over it that you deem worth it AND that you're able to get over it in the first place.
"You get to play a femdom game" is not a strong incentive, as far as I'm concerned. If there is a femdom game with one of the fetishes that are mood/boner killers for me, it's just going to kill my mood/boner.
Not the same thing as being indifferent toward X.
There's lots of things I don't like that I would like to see in the context of Femdom.
Right, but "I'd be into it if a hot lady would force the person to do it" is different from "I wouldn't be into that no matter what".
Nothing wrong in having some fetishes that are just no-nos.
I guess the Femdomme herself shouldn't appear self defeating, stupid or weak. Even that would be ok if the weakness doesn't make her feel weaker than MC
Personally I don't find stupid or weak women attractive, so if the lady the porn story is focusing on is those things, I'm not going to want to read/watch/play this story even if the MC is worse than her.
Self-defeating, well, I guess it depends why and how. "She went too fast pushing for femdom in her last relationship, so now she's afraid of doing it again in her current one, and her current lover has to convince her they can/want to match her intensity" is very different from "she has legit super powers but she lets a weak minion humiliate her because she's being blackmailed over something trivial she's too proud to admit".
That is just a question of tastes, though. I can understand someone enjoying when the femdomme is weak/stupid/self-defeating the same way that others enjoy Ugly Bastards, in a "it's more humiliating to get rekt by the bottom of the barrel."