The server is ready but it won't be open yet, there will be some overhauls, both the team and you all gave many, many amazing suggestions and ideas, thank you all for your help, you guys make all of this so worth.
I checked all the options and there's no denial how superior discord is, so as many of you asked, the server will be focused on being social and follow the (weak) discord law, i just don't want to force you guys to pass throught this routine more than necessary, yep the evil asshole here cares (most.. kinda of half... 1/10 maybe). Of course this doesn't mean a plan b isn't in order... more details in the future.
Seeing as how easy it is to fool the incompetent (and pedo) members of the discord team, we will play our part, this thread will have the links and changelogs as always, the discord will take care of the fun part, chat, screen sharing, stories, polls, tech help, wicf, etc etc...
As always everything goes to the mega folder (or DWP in case of CCs)
There is keybase.io as another possible hosted solution, and riot.im as a self-hosted solution. Those are just two of many, however.
Keybase is a really good option, but it's limit to only 1k people per team(how they call the servers) is a deal breaker, the first server had 14k members, the second one reached 2k in almost a week.