I mean you are right about strict definitions and semantics but you can't be so dense as to think that people who hate ntr would be totally ok with "scenes where the Love interest is fucking another man except MC." right? Or with sharing/swinging scenes that are, as you said, basically cuckolding where mc enjoys it
Regardless of context, the problem most people have with ntr is that the Love Interest is getting fucked by another character. So to pretend all those others scenarios are SO TOTALLY DIFFERENT when that is what happens in all of them, is kinda retarded. And I would assume someone from the MrDots team that has had recurring problems with those "technically not ntr" scenes would know by now. Apparently not. I mean you guys haven't figured out by now how explaining a scene isn't exactly ntr does fuck all? You serious?
People really don't give a fuck about definitions, they just know what they dislike call it sharing/ntr/cuckolding/swinging/in the past/ before meeting MC/ whatever.
Thinking that people only hate ntr and they would stop hating the content when they realize it doesn't fit the exact ntr definition is so dumb
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"Oh, scene doesn't fit the ntr definition, I guess I love the scene now, even when I totally hated it before. What a silly boy I was"
That's what you are expecting to happen, you realize how dumb that is, yeah?