That has ZERO to do with having to wait 10 days....Because you see it with a time constrain, instead think about doing it to support the development of a game you enjoy playing.
Honnestly if we were not doing a porn game, I would have make it available publicly if the support is reasonable for the work we put in and everyone on the team is happy, but for my own conscience, having younger and teen kids at home, I prefer none of not adult find or play a game like this. That's the reason why we introduce parental control on the game.
We even surf on the idea to make a flat rate tier and make the game available right when it's done for everyone. But that's risky to do if the support is not enough to sustain the development in long run. We like what we do and want to continue doing it for you.
And making it available to everyone who paid for it straight away would only increase your income.
You complain about the thread split, and i'm sure that has contributed. But i'm also 100% sure you're asking for WAY too much money. Screw paying for a game if i then have to wait 10 days to play it.