So I was bored and this just popped off on my mind: is the reason why Julia(?) doesn't get with the other dude because he wanted a mono relationship? because at this point I don't see the Mc being against "sharing" so why doesn't instead of just waiting on someone with obviously multiple relationships and not get more than one yourself?
It's a good question, IIRC, Julia basically put it out there she prefers the MC, but if he isn't interested in pursuing her, then she will give the other guy a date/guaranteed hook-up. I don't recall why the sharing option was never addressed, the way it was presented was all or nothing, with her giving the first right of refusal depending on his interest. If I had to speculate, Julia is the one not interested in sharing, she's possibly a 1-cock kinda gal only and figured if the MC was into her, she'd give him one last ultimatum. Given that I don't share with other guys, it worked out for me and just kept her for myself.
No, they didn't regret shit. Deb broke it off after a while, but Jules wanted to keep fucking. There was a whole conversation about it if you checked the camera in her room at night (I don't remember exactly when, it's been a while). As for Milly, even Deb is not that stupid to think she could get away with actually banging her against the MC's wishes. She was still groping her at every chance, taunt the MC the way I wrote before (agreeing to stop messing with her and then sending that picture the very same night was a big fuck you, in my book, and he took it like a good cuck champ...) and she eventually "denied" her with a kiss in the dressing room, because that's something you do when you want to keep someone away... Kiss them! She's been pretty much grooming her (the other scene with her and Jules naked in bed I mentioned is a good example for that) waiting for the MC to make a move (so she can sneak in) or give her the green light.
Again, if Deb didn't care about the MC she wouldn't be the one being comforted by Julia after their sex, which is the scene that happens looking at the camera feed. As for Millie, sure she was flirting with her niece, no different that how Millie was actively pursuing her until the MC told her to back off. At which point despite her desire and lust kicking in, she kept telling Millie, no, it was not going happen. She can't control Millie basically stalking her, rubbing up on her trying every thing she can to have sex with her, especially since she knows her aunt likes girls too. As far grooming her goes, yes, to an extent I agree she was grooming her. But if anything she was grooming her with the intention of allowing her father to be the first one to be with her, then, maybe she could have her fun as well considering by then the family secret would be out in the open. But everything she did with Millie was done with the intent to get the MC back into his daughter's good graces who at that time still hated his guts and did not know everything .
When you say you want to spend your life with someone, you usually show it with actions. If I want a woman to take me seriously, I won't try to fuck everything that moves around her. Her actions doesn't show that she wants to be with him, but that she wants him to be the "living dildo" of her harem, or the "first wife" if you want to believe she actually has feelings for him (and by feelings I don't mean the possession/obsession she's been showing). Besides that, she's sooo depressed and wants to find a way to make up with him, she was ready to go bang the random cop, because... that's how she'll win him back? Oh, yeah. She didn't want to go to that date, that's why Deb who said multiple times how much she hates dresses and supposedly wore them only because the MC likes them, got all "dolled up" for her date.
Look that's your definition of a committed relationship. It's clear that they have enjoyed an open relationship at least going back to when Marie left him. Besides that, several people are in open/polyamorous marriages /relationships, it doesn't mean they love their partners any less, especially if they happen to have high sex drives and for them its just about the sex only. Let's not forget, Deb is frustrated in so much as despite having sex with her brother, a little thing called incest prevented her dream of marrying her brother and having his babies is more or less ruining her life. At this point, the only way she can cope is settling for being the 'other' woman back when he was still married to Marie, while still having her own lesbian flings to distract her from her own misery. In a perfect world, she would either be completely monogamous to him or if that's not enough, then be in a polyamorous relationship with him and Marie or whoever else he ended up marrying. Remember she never acted out fucking girls like crazy until AFTER the MC and Marie got together and became a serious couple.
Oh my God, you're right! Deb is an angel! She has a kind soul, but she's so misundestood! Are we serious right now? If Marie hadn't die (?) the MC would have never found out the multiple ways Deb betrayed him! If she actually loved him she could tell him something like, I don't know "Hey dude, your wife wants to fuck me, what should I do?", or anything in that context. Or if it was sooo hard for her to resist the temptation, she could have said something afterwards. At some point in all those years that followed... You know the whole "no secrets between us" thing she seems to never remember... But she didn't say shit, because once again, the only person Deb loves, is Deb. The same reason she never said anything about her relationship with their mother, before there was a chance he'd get it on with her.
You're right, she fucked up and admits it or even acknowledges it. She feels shame and guilt not so much for the sex, but for not telling him about them sooner. But she also said, it's not completely her fault, after all it takes 2 to tango and Marie came on to her, why the fuck didn't she feel the need to tell her own husband about her bi-curious experimentation? While I only agree with only 50% of her justification, she does have a point no matter how frustrating it is that he'll never have the chance to question Marie directly why she would do that to him. My only guess here is she knew about Deb and his affair going back to before they were married, and decided she wanted to cheat and have some lesbian sex with her best friend but wasn't ready to share that side of her with her husband. It's fucked up and even I can't justify her decision, but this is coming from the same person who decided to come up with the asinine plan to leave her husband, take their daughter and disappear only then to marry another man, while supposedly still in love with her childhood sweetheart and optimistic one day they will get back together....oh yeah and she also lied to her daughter telling her the MC was a piece of shit that didn't want his daughter. So....I guess what I'm trying to say is in this case, Marie is clearly 100% in the wrong and created this whole clusterfuck of a mess instead of supporting her husband or at least trying to convince him to move away somewhere else to start their lives over after the military.
That's subjective. In my playthrough that's exactly what she did with Jules. She was the one I was mostly interested in, I made sure to flirt with her at every chance, but in the end she chose Deb, because she did what she knows best acted like a bull (remember the random fingering in hall?) and lied to her. Deb initially wanted a threesome, but she wanted that for herself (do you see a pattern here?). She didn't take the time to actually ask the other two people how they feel about it, all that mattered was what she wanted. She lied (Deb lied? Shocking, I know!) to Jules that the MC was on board and tried to use the fact that he showed interest in her to get him to join them and when that didn't work, instead of backing out she decided it was ok to fuck him over, because that's what she does best.
Again it's completely subjective if you don't to acknowledge the classic definition of NTR. I don't to debate that can of worms, suffice to say she optimistically assumed offering a 3some with Julia would not only scratch her own itch but ingratiate herself with both Julia and the MC, in other words, win-win. Clearly another miscalculation, clearly she knows Julia is interested in her brother, and I'm guessing also can see his interest in her, so in her mind, she felt like hey, I can get in on a 3 some while hooking these 2 up, so why not? If she didn't care, and only wanted Julia for herself, she would never have bother tempting her brother with the video feed or promising to Julia she could deliver her brother to join them. Again, another misunderstanding where the MC thought he missed out on Julia to another of Deb's lesbian conquests, without ever knowing the truth about all of Deb's sexual motivations. IMHO, Deb wanted to share an intimate sexual experience with him and not just bang another chick without him.
In any case, I'm not going to convince you and that's ok, we can just agree to disagree. I'm more of a hopeless romantic to that's going to influence every character interaction I see with the MC and of course makes me want to root for all of them to settle their differences and just all be together (to varying degrees).
