Well I to be 100% real with you. The content you are currently referring to is long in the future. I am not saying that any of what you are mentioning cant come into a frustration. It's just I haven't gotten so far into the story with the writing. What I can say is that eventually once that point comes where MC will turn into a girl (regarding the feminine routes that is). I will make it so that it is entirely up to the player no matter what's the current route that they are in.
I'm glad to hear you enjoy the game.
Out of curiosity but, will there be a possibility to go from a "Harem" romance path to a singular character romance path in the distant future? Like, when it becomes not only inconvenient but also a danger to the rest of the relationships if they are all based on love/romance
I feel like there should be something that separates the "Romance" and "Dominance" paths more than just how you interact with the love interests. Like say, on the romance path having to pick between Cecily and Philippa. Or between Alariel, Inledya or Maedhro.
That's just my thoughts on it, but it would be a bit cool for people who are actually fully interested in a more "Monogamous" path, after a certain point.