Question #1: I read that you intended to join the 2 Harems, is it already done, or is it for the future still?
Question #2: Have you considered putting the Lore and other relevant information on a Codex or something similar, while keeping the game lighter and easier to read?
Question #3: Are the "Family" relationships safe, or, after (or during) the "adventure" the main drive for all this is lost and simply vanishes? (To be clear, I'm not asking for anything more than the Wife and the Daughter to be that, exactly)
Question #4: Is the Harem a conflict source for the Marriage or is it accepted? (Basically is it Cheating, or the wife agrees with it?)
Disclaimer: I haven't played YET, so if any of this is addressed in-game, I didn't see it. I will wait for the answers to make a decision on whether to play or not.
Main point of contention and the reason I am not yet playing is, an Harem that is obtained AFTER a marriage, without the wife's presence, and therefore no chance to approve or disapprove. I am all for Harems, I am decidedly against cheating. Forming, or allowing an Harem to form around you, while in a marriage, demands explicit participation or better yet, involvement, of the spouse, otherwise it is cheating. Sure, it is Porn logic, but, I don't play Porn games, I play Adult ones.
Peace