No, I am just curious, what is it about this that people find hot? I personally really love strong women that take charge, that can even be forceful, I think that if a woman for example would pin a guy down and fuck him or press her pussy in his face and make him eat it, it's hot.
But these femdom games seem like pure sadism without any sexual gratification what so ever. A woman gets a strap-on and fucks the guy painfully in the ass for example. The guy gets no sexual pleasure, the woman gets no sexual pleasure, no one gets any sexual pleasure, the guy just gets pain and the woman enjoys his pain, ok, but to me that is in the same category as if she would just beat him up with a baseball bat. Same with making him drink her piss or hurting / humiliating him in other different ways.
I just want to understand the appeal, if you could put it into words for me and how it corelates with sexual gratification I would be grateful.