hmmm... dude, you know, women are all fucked up - each in her own way... but that's no reason to take cruel revenge on them in our man's world - that would be a "total overkill". no. If I drag Minami onto that train, it's with a plan to immediately pull her out of the worsening situation. Why bring it to the boil? Otherwise, she won't understand me, I'll be her opponent. She won't hear my reasonable words*. Or rather, she will hear them, but she'll understand them completely differently. (like in court, everything you say will be turned against you) and when I save her, she'll consider me a savior and will be able to hear my words with a different twist. in other words, it was a way to "break the ice". It's a bit cruel, but in the end, everything turned out well - if she suffered, it was only her pride, and I paid with my own blood, which is more than fair. she is rewarded for that stress by getting herself a master who takes care of her and takes care of her - isn't that what every woman wants?
*there is one joke about female logic, when a guy on a tram asked a girl to give the conductor money for the fare. he addressed her kindly, but the girl (who had a bad day) "started thinking", association after association - she "overthinks" and blurted out "citizens, he called me a bitch!"
and if the guy had been a good friend of that girl, then everything would have been fine.