I've got a few, though sorry if some of them have already been mentioned.
-I bring it up all the time, but femdom games where you play as a female dom would be so amazing to me. Do the usual femdom things, like being mommy, and showing people they like to be stepped on, because you find their confused, helpless arousal to be endearing and hot. Seduce people in thrilling sexual combat, preferably hot men because we never see that, and turn their brains into happy goo that is eager to serve you. Maybe lifedrain a hero or two to get your morning buzz. Corrupt men, or women, into enjoying whatever bizarrely specific way you've chosen to treat them while calling them humiliating pet names. Just... your average femdom game things. As a woman. Who is not a submissive.
- +1 for the semi-public groping, outercourse and clothed sex stuff. Like, I enjoy PiV scenes as much as the next girl, but buttjobs and thighjobs can be really hot too (if you use lube so you don't get friction burns), and there's plenty of fun things you can do with one anothers' genitals that don't involve putting one inside the other
Likewise, I think people in clothing often look hotter than they do out of it, but that nakedness
can be hot if the sensation of skin-on-skin is important to the eroticism of the scene. A lot of games suck at writing that tho lol. Plus, I saw a really hot scene in a Toro Toro Resistance game of a woman being possessed by a haunted wedding dress and it basically eating her partner, which is like... omg. More of that please.
-Following on from the first... women with explicit kinks that they happily pursue fulfilment of. Not just submission, or humiliation, but enjoying things that aren't entirely there to titilate a male MC. Getting peed on isn't a thing she grimaces about for the player's pleasure in humiliating her... it's a turn-on the MC is pushed into doing
for her, that has her hands buried between her legs in record time, and she actively encourages you to drink more water afterwards in anticipation of when you can next do it. She thinks the way you grimace when she spanks your ass is hot, and is visibly aroused by it, even if you're not the biggest fan. There is this thing she convinces you will be fun, where you roleplay that she is your pony, and has you ride around the bedroom her back. You discover a box of latex fetishwear in her closet that she wears because she enjoys the feel of it when masturbating. She collects it herself and is quite knowledgeable, but would probably appreciate the gesture if you bought her a cute rubber hood sometime. Toys are a normal part of her sex life, and the MC is secure enough in his own masculinity to admit that they sometimes do things his dick can't, and that's just
okay. Just... women in games with fetishes and kinks they're not ashamed of getting off to, pretty much, with a side of assertiveness.
-Hot men. You know, like how bara games present them, as sweet and gruff and funny and genuinely expressive, and...
masculine! Rather than, you know, emotionally stunted and creepy, with a side of insecurity. And yes, they can wear whatever they want, including bomb af dresses, I don't care. It's more about their mindset, tenderness and emotional security than their outward appearance.
-Dudes being corrupted. Kind of a guilty pleasure, and way too rare outside of findom, which isn't really my thing tbh.
- +1 for consensual BDSM in games, rather than just blackmail/manipulation. Aftercare would be a plus.
I can't think of any more, but might check back if I do, and this post is already too long and self-indulgent anyway.
I've seen this precisely once in a game, but yes, this is astoundingly rare:
Happy Heart Panic. There's a futanari tanuki enemy that does this to you if you play as the male protagonist under certain circumstances. Idk if you've played it, but I hope this helps haha