What fetishes do you find hard to understand? - Gathering ideas for a potential video essay series

[Jbuster]

Balloons

Almost every other thing, I get it. Gore, snuff, vore, etc., they are crazy but not beyond shit I've seen while thinking, "You know what?, I'm not really into this but I understand the appeal, I see why other enjoy it"

With balloons there's nothing, maybe they like the texture, the sound, whatever, I just don't get it

 

[NdinguSuya]

all the paraphilias tbh

 

[suprisedcrankyface]

yet you want those women to have cocks? does not compute bro

Yes it does, futa x women is less 'gay' than man x woman, because there no man, just a futa. IF men are a turnoff, futa might just be able to pull it off (no pun intended i swear).

& before you say hetero sex isn't gay, its not when the mans doing it, but if a guys jerking off watching another guy then yeah, there is a little bit of 'gay' in there.

 

[HornyMonsterGirlEnjoyer]

One of the ideas I have is a series explaining various fetishes and exploring what people find so appealing about them.

So I ask you, what stuff have you seen or heard of that has left you completely bewildered as to why anyone would be interested in it.

Tbh, I've never understood why people are into lolis. I've stated before that I prefer girls shorter than me. I usually like to say I enjoy them with large breasts. From what I understand lolis are kids. I'm not into kids. I also don't really like the 300 year old deity/dragon/vampire thing.

 

[Luc77]

gigantic overkill of incest + boys stealing attractive 30-40 - after all, it's pure fantasy
Of course, it is clear why - because it is the image of the main audience, but it is worth making a film about it....

In addition - of course scat, piss, etc. strongly deviant perverts

 

[IBreedWives]

Yes it does, futa x women is less 'gay' than man x woman, because there no man, just a futa. IF men are a turnoff, futa might just be able to pull it off (no pun intended i swear).

& before you say hetero sex isn't gay, its not when the mans doing it, but if a guys jerking off watching another guy then yeah, there is a little bit of 'gay' in there.

not if you are self inserting which you should be as i dont see the point in playing these games if you dont, you are the guy fucking the woman, nothing gay about that

a futa is basically a tranny, which is a man, how is that better than seeing an actual male, i am baffled by this

 

[suprisedcrankyface]

not if you are self inserting which you should be as i dont see the point in playing these games if you dont, you are the guy fucking the woman, nothing gay about that

a futa is basically a tranny, which is a man, how is that better than seeing an actual male, i am baffled by this

No, a futa is a girl with a dick magically attached (often without balls). & on the poll I ran very very few people self insert, UNLESS there is a good character/writing attached. Futa have T&A and all the bits, shaped like a woman just + a dick. A guy is not shaped like that.

To put it anotherway, do you need to 'self insert' to like looking at lesbian porn? OR is it a visual stimulus and the 'self insert' is your cope for looking at the big bouncing balls every now and then?

In futa x woman if you look at the 'wrong' place you just get more lady parts, do that with a guy in there and you are staring at a dudes ringhole.

There is no 'high ground' either its all smut and people like what they like, its not a judgment on anyone, just stating facts

 

[Duke Greene]

not if you are self inserting which you should be as i dont see the point in playing these games if you dont

Oh right, here's another thing to the pile of stuff I don't get: people who can only self-insert.

 

[IBreedWives]

No, a futa is a girl with a dick magically attached (often without balls). & on the poll I ran very very few people self insert, UNLESS there is a good character/writing attached. They have T&A and all the bits, shaped like a woman just + a dick. A guy is not shaped like that.

To put it anotherway, do you need to 'self insert' to like looking at lesbian porn? OR is it a visual stimulus and the 'self insert' is your cope for looking at the big bouncing balls every now and then?

so magic is the difference between a futa and a tranny, got it i guess hormone replacement therapy is "magic" as well no?

i dont like lesbian porn precisely because i cant relate or self insert so i couldnt tell you

 

[HornyMonsterGirlEnjoyer]

so magic is the difference between a futa and a tranny, got it i guess hormone replacement therapy is "magic" as well no?

i dont like lesbian porn precisely because i cant relate or self insert so i couldnt tell you

Okay, I'm not gonna pretend I'm a expert on futa, but I do enjoy futa porn. Specifically futa x female. Most of the time it's assumed that the futa always had the dick. So I guess the term is intersex? Either way I think some people just prefer seeing two women going at it and also want some penetration? That's why I like it. You've watched lesbian stuff. I know you don't like it, but maybe you'll understand if the fetish if you just replace futa dick with strap on?

 

[Insomnimaniac Games]

i dont like lesbian porn precisely because i cant relate or self insert so i couldnt tell you

No, I get it. You can only get off if you imagine yourself inside another man. It's cool dude, we don't judge.

 

[Death Panda]

No one is going to say it? NTR.

It's bog standard corruption except you add a random ass guy into the mix to feel bad about it, so that you can self-insert into the guy and feel bad about it too. Literally no point.

 

[suprisedcrankyface]

Oh right, here's another thing to the pile of stuff I don't get: people who can only self-insert.

As a character or in other ways

so magic is the difference between a futa and a tranny, got it i guess hormone replacement therapy is "magic" as well no?

i dont like lesbian porn precisely because i cant relate or self insert so i couldnt tell you

Well Futa isnt real, so yes, its a made up race that has fully functioning parts but LOOKS like a woman, so you would generally say 95% woman, 5% dick. Unless its massive dick futa then scale that up proportionally.

Your issue is you clearly have a mindset that refuses to accept that as you watch porn, the sight of a naked, fully erect man going at it doesn't turn you off, and yet the sight of two naked women wanting it apparently does...

 

[MissCougar]

Yeh its not rocket science - if you want bukkake porn but not 15 dudes, get 16 girls and stick functioning penises on 15 of them

Get them girls some cocks!

I mean, that's why I like it. I'm into women, I'm not into dudes. With futa stuff, you get the best of all worlds. In my experience, a lot of people tend to only think in a "male protagonist game" perspective, so when they think futa, they think of a dude getting railed. So I always have to specify I mean Futa X Female.

Exactly!

No, a futa is a girl with a dick magically attached (often without balls). & on the poll I ran very very few people self insert, UNLESS there is a good character/writing attached. Futa have T&A and all the bits, shaped like a woman just + a dick. A guy is not shaped like that.

To put it anotherway, do you need to 'self insert' to like looking at lesbian porn? OR is it a visual stimulus and the 'self insert' is your cope for looking at the big bouncing balls every now and then?

In futa x woman if you look at the 'wrong' place you just get more lady parts, do that with a guy in there and you are staring at a dudes ringhole.

There is no 'high ground' either its all smut and people like what they like, its not a judgment on anyone, just stating facts

So there's a lot of games where guys bang the girls and I can enjoy some of those. I like the girls being the star and banging the guys too. But I don't enjoy lesbian stuff in games much.

Maybe it just doesn't feel genuine? maybe it breaks my self insert?

 

[suprisedcrankyface]

Maybe it just doesn't feel genuine? maybe it breaks my self insert?

Immersion and self insert are not the same (There is a difference between loosing yourself in a story, and seeing yourself in a story). When you watch a good movie you don't often imagine yourself as a character rather sit back and take it all in, but sometimes people do. With games there's some interactivity you lack in other media, so 'relating to' a character can more easily turn into self insert, because with enough freedom you can choose to do exactly what you would do.

That said I don't think there is any lesbian porn on here not written by a guy wanting to just make ladies mash bits together, with some of the more popular ones being a female MC that the player basically uses as a sock puppet (such as fashion business etc.).

My limited encounters with lesbian porn (as in porn for lesbians, not for guys wanting to watch lesbians) seems to play with seduction and 'turning' a girl, massages, OR its just 1 girl getting herself off. And not once do they go yell 'ehyaa, ehyaa, ehyaa' while rolling their eyes with their mouth open

 

[tanstaafl]

I mean, that's why I like it. I'm into women, I'm not into dudes. With futa stuff, you get the best of all worlds. In my experience, a lot of people tend to only think in a "male protagonist game" perspective, so when they think futa, they think of a dude getting railed. So I always have to specify I mean Futa X Female.

I understand the thought process. I'm just not a fan of fantasies that are a literal impossibility instead of a statistical improbability.

 

[Insomnimaniac Games]

I understand the thought process. I'm just not a fan of fantasies that are a literal impossibility instead of a statistical improbability.

Sounds boring. Gimme magic and dragons. Fantastical stuff.

 

[MissCougar]

Immersion and self insert are not the same (There is a difference between loosing yourself in a story, and seeing yourself in a story). When you watch a good movie you don't often imagine yourself as a character rather sit back and take it all in, but sometimes people do. With games there's some interactivity you lack in other media, so 'relating to' a character can more easily turn into self insert, because with enough freedom you can choose to do exactly what you would do.

That said I don't think there is any lesbian porn on here not written by a guy wanting to just make ladies mash bits together, with some of the more popular ones being a female MC that the player basically uses as a sock puppet (such as fashion business etc.).

My limited encounters with lesbian porn (as in porn for lesbians, not for guys wanting to watch lesbians) seems to play with seduction and 'turning' a girl, massages, OR its just 1 girl getting herself off. And not once do they go yell 'ehyaa, ehyaa, ehyaa' while rolling their eyes with their mouth open

This reminds me of the "Porn for women" category on porn sites which for some reason is full of lesbians. Like... that's not what makes me excited, guy who made that category. Nice try though!

It's like softcore or romance or drama with some kind of low key softcore. Probably like the old Cinemax stuff is basically hard core for me.

 

[suprisedcrankyface]

This reminds me of the "Porn for women" category on porn sites which for some reason is full of lesbians. Like... that's not what makes me excited, guy who made that category. Nice try though!

It's like softcore or romance or drama with some kind of low key softcore. Probably like the old Cinemax stuff is basically hard core for me.

Porn for women is generally erotic fiction or story telling, I think last research 70% of readers of porn stories were women.

There is even a common writing style (i mean I think even I could write a passable one).

Guy comes along, he very attractive & often rich but somewhat distant (maybe gruff, maybe aloof). Other girls flirt with him, but he doesn't really reciprocate. Maybe he makes a tentative attachment with one. The main character sees this and when they meet is somewhat uncertain of him, she is of course very average and he is of course very hot. It then turns out he is gruff/rude because of 'unique thing' such as he rescues puppies from fires in his spare time (or something even more special). She catches his eye, a few filler things happen. He professes his love. Something gets in the way such as the 'earlier girl' or 'his special thing' (I cant get you drawn into my puppy saving world). But then in the end his love for her is too great and the obstacle is overcome (usually with him sacrificing or changing something about himself) & then they get to be together.

VS

Guys are much more visual - Naked images+ of a lady annnnnd its a go (even the naked part is optional sometimes).

 

[tanstaafl]

Sounds boring. Gimme magic and dragons. Fantastical stuff.

I don't fantasize about fucking dragons so that doesn't affect my fantasies. Dragons and magic are fine.