What fetishes do you find hard to understand? - Gathering ideas for a potential video essay series

bra24242

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I don't get feet. like, at all.

I understand the concept behind the more extreme shit like well... zoo, watersports etc., even if it disgusts me or at the very least makes me extremely uncofortable, I believe that's part of what people enjoy about it, the sense of wrongness, and while I don't understand the concept behind vore, i can see there's probably some concept about it, it seems somewhat logical as a fetish? idk how to articulate my thoughts here.

NTR. I don't get why you would willingly put yourself through that.

Please don't put my account in the video, just the text here, if you do end up using this.
 

bra24242

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Corruption, bestiality, guro, but I don't get the appeal of most kinks.
Corruption, I believe, is due to seeing the downfall of what was once prim and proper. guro, I think it's the same reason people look at gore, just the extreme emotions from it can give a "high".
 

bra24242

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I always want to feel like I'm special, but yeah you got me there.

That's basically Twilight and a billion other stories with this theme I enjoy.

i am not special after all! :sneaky:

edit: also don't forget there has to be another guy who also wants the girl and then they man/beast fight over her. They get all sweaty and probably lose their shirts in the process with rippling muscles.
Remember to thank Osama bin laden the next time you read twilight or 40shades

>9/11 happens
>My chemical romance forms in response (look it up if you don't believe me)
>twilight is written listening to their music (idk or c how)
>40 Shades of slop is a fanfiction of Twilight
> fanfic becomes a best-selling series with some minor changes
 

bra24242

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Balloons

Almost every other thing, I get it. Gore, snuff, vore, etc., they are crazy but not beyond shit I've seen while thinking, "You know what?, I'm not really into this but I understand the appeal, I see why other enjoy it"

With balloons there's nothing, maybe they like the texture, the sound, whatever, I just don't get it
I ... know I shouldn't say this on this website of all things but... is that actually a fetish?
 

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edit: also don't forget there has to be another guy who also wants the girl and then they man/beast fight over her. They get all sweaty and probably lose their shirts in the process with rippling muscles.
Nope, this is our fantasy. Btw, try Bellesa for porn. Made by women for women. ;)
 
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Jbuster

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I ... know I shouldn't say this on this website of all things but... is that actually a fetish?
Yeah, and you have them in two flavors. Those who are really into inflating and deflating balloons and those who are really into popping balloons

Also there are people out there who are really into balloon animals, but that's another thing
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Yeah, and you have them in two flavors. Those who are really into inflating and deflating balloons and those who are really into popping balloons

Also there are people out there who are really into balloon animals, but that's another thing
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this seems like a sfw version of inflation fetish...
 

bra24242

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Building up static and making your hair stick up is fun, does that count?
fetish means you get off to it sexually so
I'll admit I don't get the whole balloon as a fetish thing, but I feel like you might have hit the nail on the head here.
could be that mixed in with a sensory fetish like latex (which is the most common one iirc), the feeling of the balloon exciting them?
 

Jbuster

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fetish means you get off to it sexually so

could be that mixed in with a sensory fetish like latex (which is the most common one iirc), the feeling of the balloon exciting them?
It's a mix, some people seems to enjoy the feeling, the smell, or the inflation itself, some others just want to pop them

There are camgirls who make bank sitting on balloons

And there's also people into balloon animals which add that other element, that they like those animals (big chinese factory and they do custom toys, look for the guy who evaded the police while hiding in a giant, inflatable Lugia), so there are some furries into plastic creatures, some of them dress like that and hump each other

Anyway, whatever dumb idea you might get while thinking "no one ever would be into this", be sure there's someone out there who thinks that's sexy. I know this because too much internet and I've met weird people since forever, even this girl who was into yaoi and had a group of friend where they shared fics about guys they knew banging each other

I was in her bara fantasies
 
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with a sensory fetish like latex
Okay, as an autistic person I think I finally get it. Sensory stuff affects me in a way. Granted not sexually, but certain senses can either trigger or calm my anxiety. Like loud overlapping noises trigger some autistic meltdowns. While the feeling of my weighted blanket can calm me down. I see how different sensations from balloons or latex can arouse someone based on the way it feels on their skin. Or even the sounds they make.
 
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tanstaafl

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Okay, as an autistic person I think I finally get it. Sensory stuff affects me in a way. Granted not sexually, but certain senses can either trigger or calm my anxiety. Like loud overlapping noises trigger some autistic meltdowns. While the feeling of my weighted blanket can calm me down. I see how different sensations from balloons or latex can arouse someone based on the way it feels on their skin. Or even the sounds they make.
Speaking of sensory stuff, ASMR does nothing for me. It's just really annoying noise to me. I've read about how it triggers some kind of brain thing for some people, but I'm definitely not one of them.
 

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Speaking of sensory stuff, ASMR does nothing for me. It's just really annoying noise to me. I've read about how it triggers some kind of brain thing for some people, but I'm definitely not one of them.
Because they all just whisper and make weird noises, ASMR is meant to be a spontaneous thing (like a dog tilting its head sideways in response to a new or unique sound). ASMR isn't asmr now, its just noise porn (breathy whispering and mouth noises) that once got an ASMR response from someone.
 
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bra24242

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It's a mix, some people seems to enjoy the feeling, the smell, or the inflation itself, some others just want to pop them

There are camgirls who make bank sitting on balloons

And there's also people into balloon animals which add that other element, that they like those animals (big chinese factory and they do custom toys, look for the guy who evaded the police while hiding in a giant, inflatable Lugia), so there are some furries into plastic creatures, some of them dress like that and hump each other

Anyway, whatever dumb idea you might get while thinking "no one ever would be into this", be sure there's someone out there who thinks that's sexy. I know this because too much internet and I've met weird people since forever, even this girl who was into yaoi and had a group of friend where they shared fics about guys they knew banging each other

I was in her bara fantasies
what the fuck.

And I'm always reminded of the quote Wilson saays about fingers in 2077 "that guy has every fetish that's ever existed, and a few that don't"
Okay, as an autistic person I think I finally get it. Sensory stuff affects me in a way. Granted not sexually, but certain senses can either trigger or calm my anxiety. Like loud overlapping noises trigger some autistic meltdowns. While the feeling of my weighted blanket can calm me down. I see how different sensations from balloons or latex can arouse someone based on the way it feels on their skin. Or even the sounds they make.
Latex is like an anti-fetish for me, makes my fingertips itch and shoulders knot and my lip curl in disgust at the thought of it, and that's just from swimming caps, fake nails generate the same response, but talking about it with partners is really difficult without me seeming "controlling" or informing them of my tism way too early in the relationship... back when I tried to date blunts and cared about masking.
 

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It's a mix, some people seems to enjoy the feeling, the smell, or the inflation itself, some others just want to pop them

There are camgirls who make bank sitting on balloons

And there's also people into balloon animals which add that other element, that they like those animals (big chinese factory and they do custom toys, look for the guy who evaded the police while hiding in a giant, inflatable Lugia), so there are some furries into plastic creatures, some of them dress like that and hump each other

Anyway, whatever dumb idea you might get while thinking "no one ever would be into this", be sure there's someone out there who thinks that's sexy. I know this because too much internet and I've met weird people since forever, even this girl who was into yaoi and had a group of friend where they shared fics about guys they knew banging each other

I was in her bara fantasies
Straight women are major readers of gay fanfics. Writers and readers, even more than gay men. They even prefer watching gay porn over straight.
 
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informing them of my tism way too early in the relationship... back when I tried to date blunts and cared about masking.
You see I was the same for a while. Now at least IRL the first thing people know about me is my name. The second is that I'm autistic. I literally have a shirt that says "Autism Powered Fuck Machine"
I'm not exactly shy about that fact.