yossa999
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DNA matters, but not when the fertilized egg begins to divide. The genes are not yet activated, but the proliferating cells somehow already know who will be the skin and who will be the liver. Although after division they are identical.I've thought about this and realized there are no words, analogies or arguments I can use to make you or someone else understand why this is such a big deal.
Like in everything, context matters. The situation we are inserted in matters. Where we are, where we came from shapes every single person on this planet. DNA matters. At birth we are imprinted with genetical material of those who came before us. The very concept of family is so massive because we are talking about people who make us who we are. People who are connected to us that we didn't choose.
You can't replace a blood bond with an adoption, like you're picking a pet at the local pound, and keep the concept of "family" exactly the same. If this isn't internalized in you by default, I truly don't see how you can be made to understand it.
I mean, don't overestimate the importance of DNA
So Tom Hagen would have been a better consigliere if he hadn't been adopted? Would he be a more brother to Michael and a more son to Vito Corleone if they were blood related? And the Michael's story took the another direction?