- Oct 15, 2018
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I wasn't trying to start an argument, or thought you insinuated anything. I just wanted to point out from my pov your comments were incredibly insensitive with how you worded it, even though I don't believe that is how you intended them.I get into this topic with a friend of mine from time to time, she also has a child like that. Parents seem to get real angry and trigger-twitchy for arguments on the matter, so I'll just be clear about this part-
I am not saying you don't love your children. I am saying that any parent should want the absolute best for their children, which should include considerations before even attempting to make them. The world is a hostile place.
Obviously, being a fantasy game, these topics very rarely (if ever) come up as a matter of concern, but I'd still like to think, at least for a little while, with my brain and not my penis. I know, that goes against the usual VN mantra.![]()
As a father who lives every day in the situation you described after my child lost a genetic RNG roll or had a difficult birth (in spite of his mother and I being in our early 30's at the time), I wake up every day knowing I will likely toil the rest of my life and glady "piss" away anything I ever gain to see to it my child is happy and healthy after me. And while that may not be what I or others would want to sign up for, having you sum it up like that in the way you did was a bit triggering.