I disagree with that, the game starts with her being a unforgivable bitch. In the wake of your father's death she kicks you out of your home without a care that you don't really have anywhere else to go (lucky for you Monica steps in). The first communication you have with her is a msg:
"please don't think you can come back if you are having trouble finding somewhere.
I want to be very clear. This is no longer your home and you are not welcome here.
Please let me know your new address ASAP and I'll ship the rest of your stuff. I don't want it in my house.
if I don't hear from you in three days, I'll assume you don't want it and it will go in the trash"
Also the first time you meet Bella is when she brings you your stuff after she had notice that Elaine had put it in the trash before you had a chance to pick it up.
You can have her, she's all yours