If devs don't want people to make games instead of them, they should clearly say so. All I see is either Devs asking for ideas, suggestions and requests or others say add this, add that and Devs answering will see, we will add. I haven't seen Devs that upfront strictly say I'm making a game with my own story, characters and kinks. Either play my game or don't. Of course that others will want to see their type of sex, they aren't interested in stories.
I think the best approach is finding a balance. For me, it's about staying true to the core story idea—what made it compelling in the first place—while staying open to new ideas that can enhance it. As long as those additions don’t compromise the original vision, and they can add depth to the story. Sometimes great moments can come from ideas you didn’t plan originally, but that still feel right within the world you’ve built.
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