why are people afraid of NTR ?

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My theory is that there is a correlation like that of people who are the most vocal in hating gays that turn out to be gay themselves.
People who are most vocal against NTR are the ones furiously masturbating to it , then in post orgasm shame/regret come to these forums demanding the devs take it out.
in one word:
they are hypocrites
(and I add bigots)
or maybe gay yes.... but not lesbian they are more into NTR... at least I personally know one of them (ok she is bi-sexual but lives with a girl)
 
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Some people hate's it because simply they like some character and doesn't want that character to get fucked by some other dude. Also when it is compared to actual video porn, for me there was one pornstar i really liked but after she did like gangbang thing i kind of stopped watching her videos, probably due to jealous or anger or disgusted by it. Also I have played almost all the NTR game's available and there are some that i would never play for example Dark Hero Party, even though i did not thought putting myself in that character but i was disturbed the story. There are some NTR based games like The Tryant or Seed's of Chaos who's ntr was pretty awesome and i liked the story in general.
 

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Out of curiosity, do you think it's objectively disgusting when everyone involved consents to the activity, or only when someone is being cheated on?
That is like asking if pineapple on pizza is disgusting only when it is the only topping. Of course not. The only thing that makes pineapple on pizza bearable is the fact that most pizza chains only combine it with canadian bacon to make the abomination that is hawaiian pizza. Now imagine that a vocal minority of pizza lovers got pizza chains to add pineapple to a significant number of pizza flavors and pizza chains did not allow you to customize your toppings, like pineapple is a normal pizza topping with widespread appeal. That is the NTR community.
 

Joshua Tree

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Some people hate's it because simply they like some character and doesn't want that character to get fucked by some other dude. Also when it is compared to actual video porn, for me there was one pornstar i really liked but after she did like gangbang thing i kind of stopped watching her videos, probably due to jealous or anger or disgusted by it.
Something like the image of the "sweet neighbor girl next door look" get ruined by get taken by a train of dudes and used as a cumbucket?
 

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That is like asking if pineapple on pizza is disgusting only when it is the only topping. Of course not. The only thing that makes pineapple on pizza bearable is the fact that most pizza chains only combine it with canadian bacon to make the abomination that is hawaiian pizza. Now imagine that a vocal minority of pizza lovers got pizza chains to add pineapple to a significant number of pizza flavors and pizza chains did not allow you to customize your toppings, like pineapple is a normal pizza topping with widespread appeal. That is the NTR community.
Damn, you're making me hungry and it doesn't help that I actually like pineapple on pizza. But seriously, how can you say something is objectively disgusting if every party involved consents to it and enjoys it?
 
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Damn, you're making me hungry and it doesn't help that I actually like pineapple on pizza. But seriously, how can you say something is objectively disgusting if every party involved consents to it and enjoys it?
Imagine a group of people shitting and pissing all over each other, all consenting adults and enjoying it. How can you say it's disgusting, and what keep you from jump in and join them? Of course if you like that sort of thing.... I just pointing out extremes here but,, hey..
 
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Also putting yourself in the game, like do you really put yourself in the game while playing incest games?

That is like asking if pineapple on pizza is disgusting only when it is the only topping. Of course not. The only thing that makes pineapple on pizza bearable is the fact that most pizza chains only combine it with canadian bacon to make the abomination that is hawaiian pizza. Now imagine that a vocal minority of pizza lovers got pizza chains to add pineapple to a significant number of pizza flavors and pizza chains did not allow you to customize your toppings, like pineapple is a normal pizza topping with widespread appeal. That is the NTR community.
Putting Pineapple on pizza is disgusting.

Something like the image of the "sweet neighbor girl next door look" get ruined by get taken by a train of dudes and used as a cumbucket?
Lol yeah!
 

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I don't know if there are any NTR tropes that I am a fan of but there are a ton that have zero interest in or actively avoid. Things like blackmail, rape 'em til you break 'em, old creep, fat creep, bbc, ineffective MC with little or no control over the situation.

I could enjoy a story where the netori is a decent guy taking the girl from the typical NTR antagonist.

Most NTR is about negative emotions (anger, jealousy, helplessness etc.) and that is basically the opposite of what I am looking for in these games.

Most MC's in NTR games are pathetic, which seems to be the point at least with netorase, and are not enjoyable to watch or control.

NTR optional games can be fun but there is a tendency for devs to focus on one path more than another, or the game ends up being about constantly blocking the potential netori's. LI's are completely different people depending on which path you take and the MC tends to be inferior to his competition (looks, money, charisma etc.).

I play games for the story and to have some control over events. Sex scenes in a game without buildup don't really do anything for me. I don't like when games start off with a sex scene with people I don't know anything about even if it is the MC. If it is forced NTR then I don't have any control and from my perspective it is like playing a game that is impossible to win.

The most frustrating thing to me about NTR is that by design the MC can't really do anything to retaliate. I can't remember the name of the game but there is one where you start out with a cheating wife, once you catch her you have some options to deal with her like kicking her out of the house or taking her back as a sub. I don't know if that game would count as NTR but that sort of thing I can enjoy. The helpless endings are not something I can enjoy.
 

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That is like asking if pineapple on pizza is disgusting only when it is the only topping. Of course not. The only thing that makes pineapple on pizza bearable is the fact that most pizza chains only combine it with canadian bacon to make the abomination that is hawaiian pizza. Now imagine that a vocal minority of pizza lovers got pizza chains to add pineapple to a significant number of pizza flavors and pizza chains did not allow you to customize your toppings, like pineapple is a normal pizza topping with widespread appeal. That is the NTR community.
I completely disagree. NTR is made at the rate it is because it's popular whether you like it or not. It gets 100's of doujin a year, many of the top H-games are NTR and a lot of the top H-game creators make NTR. I wouldn't say it's the most popular fetish but it's definitely very high on the list with only generic things beating it out.
 

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Imagine a group of people shitting and pissing all over each other, all consenting adults and enjoying it. How can you say it's disgusting, and what keep you from jump in and join them? Of course if you like that sort of thing.... I just pointing out extremes here but,, hey..
It's not my bag but power to them if they enjoy it. Even if I were disgusted by it (and I'm not because I have a strong stomach), it would be subjective. If it were objectively disgusting, then no one would enjoy it. There's no such thing when it comes to fetishes.
 
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I don't know if there are any NTR tropes that I am a fan of but there are a ton that have zero interest in or actively avoid. Things like blackmail, rape 'em til you break 'em, old creep, fat creep, bbc, ineffective MC with little or no control over the situation.
The helpless endings are not something I can enjoy.
That's why i hated Dark Hero, the MC was a huge pussy.
 

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I completely disagree. NTR is made at the rate it is because it's popular whether you like it or not. It gets 100's of doujin a year, many of the top H-games are NTR and a lot of the top H-game creators make NTR. I wouldn't say it's the most popular fetish but it's definitely very high on the list with only generic things beating it out.
Fetish's can be a cultural thing too. What is popular in say Japan/Asia isn't necessary popular in typical "western" world.
 

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It's not my bag but power to them if they enjoy it. Even if I were disgusted by it (and I'm not because I have a strong stomach), it would be subjective. If it were objectively disgusting, then no one would enjoy it. There's no such thing when it comes to fetishes.
Just because you have a dislike towards a fetish and don't like it, you can still be of the opinion someone else like it and have right to do so, just as you have the right to like what you do without get taken a dump on.
 
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We are not afraid of NTR, we're disgusted with NTR.

After I said that, the main problem with F95 is the different treatment of NTR fans and NTR haters. See, I don't care about your kinks, NTR included. I won't come in NTR game thread asking for NTR to be removed from the game. I'll maybe leave some comment or will search for info if NTR is unavoidable etc.

On the other hand, you'll find a bunch of NTR fans in non-NTR game threads asking for their kink, fantasising about NTR gangbang of girls from that non-NTR game... You know? Things that don't have anything with the content of the game. And mods won't do anything.

And there is another problem, but that one is mostly because of inexperienced devs: so, I would check game tags - no NTR, no rape, no mind control, no torture, humiliation... Great! Sounds like something I could try... Well, that's the problem. Devs are planing some of those fetishes but they didn't mention them cause they thought that would be sort of a spoiler. And then people start raging... I mean, nobody is really wrong in that situation - it's just devs' inexperience how to deal with fetish tags.
 

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Some people hate's it because simply they like some character and doesn't want that character to get fucked by some other dude. Also when it is compared to actual video porn, for me there was one pornstar i really liked but after she did like gangbang thing i kind of stopped watching her videos, probably due to jealous or anger or disgusted by it.
:rolleyes: :unsure: :LOL: :unsure: :(
 

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Oh, 'afraid' even? I don't mind some competition, or people already being in a relationship that you witness but don't interact with. I don't need to fuck every female character in a game. If someone makes a game that's not incest, then you might be excited by seeing your sister fuck her boyfriend, which then motivates you to find someone to fuck (but not her). But the idea behind NTR is just not appealing to me. I can't be jealous when a woman is cheating, because she's dead to me at that point.

A woman doesn't need to be a virgin, hell, she could have been a prostitute for years prior, but once she's with me I see no appeal in her cheating. A bit of jealousy prior to you getting together can be fun though. You like a girl, you're kind of friends but nothing more and you see someone fucking her and you wish you could be that guy. Which then if you play the game right, you could. It's kind of like delayed gratification, heightened by seeing her fuck making you want it more.

Afraid though? Hell, I could watch some cuck porn because I identify with the dude doing the fucking and then it's just funny to see a dude be all sad and shit as you take his lady.
 
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What I don't get is why it's brought up every other second :rolleyes:, as if constantly needing to be justified. It doesn't. You're either into it or not, like every other kink here.