Why was it such an unpopular opinion to want a porn game to be easy?
I understand the need to have interactive experiences & engagement to connect and give context between each CG / scene unlocks (so they don't ended up becoming just a gallery viewer), but i really don't see the reason why some games have to make it sooo grindy.
It's a porn game, i'm not here to "git gud", i'm here to git nut.
I would say the issue of grind is a matter of bad choice or design on some game developers not that they think it is needed.
This comes about probably from a number of factors.
The first being trying to extend out the limited amount of content a game has. This is especially true where art is hand created vs that of rendered art.
However, you still find it in games with rendered art. Often though as you see a game develop you see the grind go down. Example: Fashion business when the game was first created the grind was insane and it has been reduced over time because the developer has more content to fill in between with. Don't get me wrong I'm not saying it is a good game has to many plot issues for my taste but I have to say they have at least worked on the grind issue.
Other factors are they are amateurs when it comes to game development so they have less tools in their repertoire to solve issues with. Another factor can be life experience, most people haven't done the stuff they are writing about and all they have to go by is what they read watch and hear from others. Most of that is really bad reference material. Intellectual power can be a huge factor how smart a person is limits how much of picture they can see at once what effects transfer across larger areas and can cause other residual effects.
I can't say I heard anyone claiming a game need to be more grindy. I've seen plenty of comments including my own regarding the quality of plot and other issues, quality aspects.
If all you are interested in is busting a nut there are far easier ways. Just watch porn or call your girlfriend up. The porn you don't have to deal with 10,000 mouse or keyboard clicks to move forward you can just watch and focus on getting off. Your girlfriend would probably love the attention.
You play a porn game because you are looking for something more than that. There aspects a porn game fills that those can't well. That said grind isn't one of the qualities we are looking for when we play it.
Honestly, I have more trouble with porn games being over simplified unrealistic in nature. The issue usually comes about because the writer is lazy or can't actually understand what really goes on. I've discussed the issue of blackmail to no end on this site. But a lot of really shitty authors will half ass it just to move a plot in a direction. They pretend the character being blackmailed has no choice and use stupid lines even like, "I have no choice but to go along with it." when in fact they have 10,000 real choices that are vastly better than going along with it. Worse yet, the author will build the character up in the beginning as being smart and talented and not let them actually act to that level in the game. Example: Special Request.
In that respect I guess you can say we do want the level increased but that has ZERO to do with grind. It is more like we prefer to have the immersion turned up and maybe required to use our brains for a little more than taking up space.