Pretty nice, just did the sharing route with Jamal it is nice to see some netorase where the protag is not a wuss, just a question, does the other route also have netorase or is it a pure love route?
Well,there is a pure romance route in game (NTR/sharing both off, no serious rivals) where the main goal is to win your wife´s heart (which you can still botch) and you can shape which traits, friends she gains.
Then we have the fun sharing/netorase routes which come in two variants: The Stag/Vixen path (NTR/sharing on, choose PDC, friendly Jamal) where you two are a couple in love with a faible for some "naughty" fun stuff and Jamal a friendly "fuckbuddy". This path has high love points, usually 8-9 and low rival points 2 or so off the cuff.
If you take UDF instead, you are on the voyeur-heavy Stag/Vixen path. Here you have to be very careful which stats you raise and how often and when you use the snoop ability! The early snoop events are not too bad, but the later ones often carry minus love points penalties and traits you do not want on the fun sharing path. So use with care! If you are careful, you can gain the "Friends with benefits" trait in a rather positive light with you, your wife and Jamal really ok with it.
For this to happen, you can snoop the early events, BUT NEITHER the christmas party nor the bunny event in the lounge. The only snoop event from christmas onwards to take is the Valentine´s day one. All other later ones should be skipped.
If you use snoop very often, mainly the later ones, you quickly can veer away from the fun sharing/netorase towards full voyeur cucking or worse. You can see the differences in many details.
For instance, on the Stag and the voyeur Stag paths, you two are completely ok with your wife´s birthday party happening at Jamal´s flat, even if you have maybe gained the "friends with benefits" trait.
On the cuck "sharing" paths instead you see the mistrust and problems of your snooping and stuff you pushed(like her staying at the Xmas party and you snooping it instead of coming home or skipping the snoop). Here it becomes clear that you are not happy with the birthday party being at Jamal´s, even if the raw stats are not really worse, but your choices steered you this way.