There's no point in trying to explain something to someone who clearly doesn't want to hear and accept the truth even when someone shows it in his face. He is one of those who no matter what will always deny the truth and will keep believe in what he wants to be true and will always debate about it. Like i've sayed it before - there was always a debate between Gwen and MJ's fans about whose Peter's biggest love and that debate will never end cause there will always be a fans of Gwen and fans of MJ but the real fans like us know the truth is Gwen was and will always be Peter's biggest and greatest love while MJ is his second big love that managed to let him love again after the tragic lost of his biggest love Gwen. If you check my previous comments you will see some of the facts i've mentioned to him and he still is refusing to believe in all of that so my suggestion to you is just ignore his comments and don't even try to speak to him, otherwise you will spend a lot of hours or may be even days to debate with him before you realize he is never gonna accept any proof you give him and just keep arguing with you which is simply a lost of time.
PS: I see he once again mentioned Uncle Ben

He clearly can't make a simple difference between parents love and a soulmate love. Everyone knows Uncle Ben was a parent figure for Peter - the father he never has after his parents died tragically. This is a completelly different kind of love while Gwen was his soulmate, his biggest love that he was ready to marry and with which he was ready to leave and start a normal life somewhere else without been anymore Spider-Man but unfortunatelly that never happened because of Green Goblin who killed Gwen.
You’re repeating the same claim again, and once again your opening is about how sure you are rather than showing proof. Confidence is not evidence.
You still haven’t provided creator quotes that support your claim, and you continue to ignore the creator statements that were already presented. Instead, you fall back on phrases like “real fans know,” which adds nothing and proves nothing.
The screenshots and surface-level Google results you keep posting don’t support your point. The questions are framed to reach the answer you want. When the full creator commentary and reader response are considered, the claim that Gwen was Peter’s one true love does not hold up.
Yes, Stan Lee wanted Gwen to work. That point has already been acknowledged. What you keep avoiding is the outcome: she didn’t work long-term. Readers preferred MJ, and the book followed the audience. That’s how the character direction changed.
Could Gwen have worked in a different scenario? Possibly. But she was written out, and that means there is no definitive answer. Treating a hypothetical as fact is something you keep insisting on, and it still isn’t supported.
Gerry Conway admitted he favored MJ. That reflects reader response and creative preference, not destiny. Stan approved ending Gwen’s role rather than forcing a character the audience didn’t connect with. Claiming Gwen as “the true love” requires ignoring how and why those decisions were made.
This discussion began with gatekeeping instead of evidence, and it hasn’t moved past that. Disagreement doesn’t make someone wrong, and repetition doesn’t turn opinion into fact.
If you have actual proof, post it. Otherwise, repeating the same claim adds nothing.
P.S. - Since you're so focused on "facts" allow me to clear up one you said: Green Goblin didn't kill Gwen: Spider-Man did. Goblin may have put her in danger, but it was Spider-Man's actions that killed Gwen.