I don't really agree with the use of the word "hypocrisy" when describing what kinds of fiction you privately enjoy. I think the word only makes sense when applied to real-world actions.not quite, its saying I hate a genre where people steal from me while loving a genre where I steal from others and that is basically hypocrisy, to which I own as a personal fault of character.
But whether or not the word applies, it's not a "fault of character."
You're allowed to have selfish fantasies. That's not hypocritical, that's normal. A massive amount of erotica is selfish by nature, and that is 100% okay and says nothing one way or the other about one's character or behavior in the real world.