but if you enjoy being cheated on, you (the individual) would be considered a cuckI prefer netorare. As long as it's not rape/coercion. Cheating sex is better than cuckolding and swinging.
to act on your fetish in a realistic way would constitute as netorase
in ntr, the protag isn't a cuck, he doesn't enjoy being cheated on
that's why you get the illusion of not being a cuck yourself
but you
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