It's a real story, otherwise why would i be confused to whether do with her or not.
Bro, I can't tell him about all this. He is blindly in love with her, they were in 7 years of relationship since 2nd year of Uni Then last year they got married. I tried to boost up his confidence & Self-esteem but no use, he ends up in the same spot whenever i leave him & go for some office meetings.
I don't want them to get separated because i will feel like it's because of me that they got separated. My Friend is not that passionate ik, but i am doing everything in my capability to make sure their relationship survives.
If that was the case, i would have fucked her till now. I don't want to spoil their relationship, that's why i am taking slow. First of all, my friend confesses to me that he is a cuckold and wants his wife to get fucked by me. Then, when i started working up my charm on her and she got very responsive. Actually at that time, she was at her parent's home and we used to chat throughout the night, it continued about 2 months. All of a sudden, he visits her and says to stop all this, I understood it and kept my distance but his wife got hooked up to me and started messaging me again.
Dude, she is a really hot woman and whenever she get all naughty with me. It's hard for me to control myself as a guy. There were multiple instances, where she whispers dirty stuff into my ears. If it was any other girl, i wouldn't have hesitated to lift her up on my shoulders and throw her on my bed and go wild on her, but she is my friend's wife so, i behave myself and let things be in control.
When the guy says "hey, I'm a cuckoo", but later on backtracks on that and locks himself out of being in contact with you - that's a sign that the dude's probably being slowly brought up to that by his girl. I may be wrong. People can be manipulated into being someone who they're not.
Just of my experience - there was one girl with whom I ended up looking like embarassment and a shadow of myself. Another one made me feel like a tiger, ready to conquer the world and making me realise that I'm just wasting my potential being the lazy slob. Furthermore, there was one girl whom I was dating. And at some point, I couldn't get my thing up. At that point realisation came that "Hey, may be this girl is not for me". The relationship ended. Never had any problems like that before or after her. Shit just happened.
On what you've written here earlier, their relationship is doomed, IMO. Dragging it out further will just make matters worse.
I dunno...Then just have one on one with the dude and ask him what HE really wants, not what he wants to do to have his girl happy, not how he sees himself or something. Wouldn't surprise me if it ends up something like: "I don't know man, but I'm ready to do whatever it takes to keep her with me"
I respect your comment but I don't agree. I don't know if you have little or no experience in having a relationship with another person, because otherwise you would understand that in the world there are many types of relationships, even in this game it shows you with various types of relationships that you can have. the couple, to give an example, I am married and I have a swinger relationship and we are very happy together, because the problem that I see is not him but his friend who does not know how to separate love and desire that is why he blocks his wife from experiencing pleasure with other men, if he could, she loves him but she may also want to have sex with other people, he would be happier and he could also try the same, I hope you understand that relationships are not as simple as you think
Mate, I'm 27) Having views different to yours doesn't make a dude inexperienced with another gender) Your relationship is your relationship: if that works for you - nice . But as a counterargument: okay, then one day dude's wife comes up to him and says: "Hey, I wanna go buy some white sand from Jerome on the block" - and he replies: "Cool, who am I to block you from experiencing pleasure from sniffing coke". Agreeing on relationship like this puts dude on a slippery slope where he may end up getting hurt.
It is simple to me - I belong to you and you belong to me. No? Well... cool, then I'm not the one for you. And as someone who is very experienced you should know that there are a lot of people like me who still see relationship in this, conservative way.
At the end of the day, just agree to disagree. But if the guy ends up being hurt with this whole thing, it will be sad.
