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Magine that , girl breaking up with someone she has no respect for. Whatever your kinks are live'em out, who am I to judge what grown folks do in their own bedrooms. But don't get it twisted about how she would look at you and the other guy. To her you wouldn't be on his level, you wouldn't be seen in the same light. At that point your less of a man in her eyes and only seen as subtility, someone familiar to live and a loving roommate. If anyone says different just ask the wife's opinion, I've talked to some of these chicks before at bars. When I was younger I ran into this type of set up, at the time couldn't figure it out. I could swear she was hitting on me but was like naw I'm reading into this to much cause she can't be, her old man is sitting right over there. Then it was explained to me how their relationship works and how she saw him. I asked him to pay the tab n I slipped out. I chalked it up shit you see when you go to the big city.
Thank you. English is not my first language. Forgive me for not speaking it well
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depends, open relationships must be accompanied by open communications. It's only cheating if somebody didn't play by their own rules. If they had no rules, how is it cheating?
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Somewhat agree with that. Yeah the big thing is communication, however even if there is no rules it can still be cheating. In the Ethan reluctant route there is no rules yet he still feels that Nat is cheating on him and I kind of agree with him. Despite her trying to force him into cuckolding when he said that he couldn't do it she still either forces him to watch her (to save their marriage) or fuck around behind his back, even though Ethan knows that she is cheating she doesn't admit that she was cheating until Ethan catches her and Darrel in the car and they have the big showdown.
When my wife and I first got into the swinging lifestyle we were very green... She has known about my Trans side since the beginning of when we got together. We were staying in a swingers hotel and one of the nights I dressed as my femme side, we had never really discussed what the rules were for when I am En-femme so I assumed it was the same rules to apply. I kissed another woman (which is allowed in the rules we have when I am male) I told her about it after and to say she was pissed at me for kissing another woman would be an understatement. We left the hotel 2 days early.
So I ask you all, did I cheat?
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I would beg to differ, in the reluctant route or any other route, they were living by the rules that they both agreed to in their wedding vows when they married (that's assuming they had some sort of traditional marriage) When they agreed to try out an open relationship, all their old rules were thrown out. Unless they mutually agreed upon a set of "new rules", any sex with anyone else wouldn't be cheating.
As for your relationship, I can't answer your question, but IMHO, beg forgiveness and agree not to do that again. People tend to forgive when asked to, likewise, mercy and forgiveness, are good principles to live by. They put the humanity into being human.
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In the Ethan reluctant route (depending on your choices) assuming they had conventional vows. She does break the vows of "Love Honour and obey, forsaking all others" therefore she has cheated and (again dependant on the players choices) she does admit to Ethan that she is cheating on him because when she asked him for an open relationship (cuckolding) he doesn't agree, she does it anyway. I fail to see how that is not cheating.
Even if he does agree to Cuckolding whilst its not traditional cheating it is still cheating in my view. He makes it clear that he doesn't want to see her having sex with others but she disregards his wishes and forces him to watch and humiliates him while doing so. She even fuck's Darrel in their marital bed and gives up her anal virginity to him in said bed.
I will say that I am probably getting muddled up with what happens in each route, there is at least 10 different routes and I can't remember exactly what happens in each individual route. I still think however that in any of the Ethan reluctant routes (job/no job, Ethan cheat's or doesn't cheat) it still involves some form of cheating.
Look I love all the routes in this game they are very well done, I may not agree with all the routes but it doesn't stop me from playing all routes. Where I get frustrated is people will assume that because cuckolding is being portrayed as humiliation and cheating all be it with the other partners knowledge that is what cuckolding is in the real world, when it really isn't. There has to be a lot of communication between the husband and wife, IF something happens that either party don't like then they respect their spouse and not do it or discuss and compromise.
As for my scenario
it was 9 years ago) I didn't view it as cheating at first because I assumed (wrongly) that the same rules applied weather I was dressed Male or female. Only having it explained to me by someone who was neutral to the situation did I understand how it was cheating. My wife did forgive and we have learned from that experience and we have grown alot closer to each other and this year we will be together 11 years, married 8 years.
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That's as good as it gets!
Anyway, breaking any of their own set of rules of monogamy is technically cheating, but IMO if the offender tells their partner about their offense and seeks forgiveness, all can be forgiven. But if they keep it a secret!?! Whole different story. Depending on what it was, like... in a moment of weakness, they had a minor sexual encounter with someone, or they willfully had multiple sexual encounters with someone almost every day for months, got caught, and didn't stop after that. That's a tiger showing their stripes, not a mistake.
I know what you mean, this game has so many rabbit holes it's tough to keep them straight!
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More likely no, if she's saying sex is better with these other guys would you trust her to go outta town for the weekend without you.
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Some women never say the sex is better, some believe the sex is always better with husband because of their connection but she just likes the adventure and excitement of acting like a whore and the variety. If a woman believes this, then she will prolly put the relationship above her selfish needs. But it would still be hard to trust her, but those guys that open the doors to these things usually don't know how to close them.
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And yet theres no Liya followup - suggesting Jenna is more a plot device to mechanize the ntr/cheating paths. If that party is thought of as more of a pure "cuckold party" than a "swinger party", it makes more sense. Having said that, I was glad for its inclusion, if only to temporarily get away from the "Darrell's solo of lust"...
We broke up on mutual understanding, and it wasn't because of the cuckolding. You're not wrong about her bull being better than me sexually, the man had a bigger cock, hotter body physique, and pleasured my gf during sex greater than I did. And I had to respect that, but he didn't have the capacity to handle her emotionally like I did and also take care of her needs on daily basis. And I was fine with just her companionship in return.
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Sadly some (most) relationships aren't meant to last... hope you find what you're looking for in life.
Since we have a million different life experiences, IHMO a game tread isn't the best place to share them. Opening up intimate details of your lives risks that some people could exploit that info to your detriment.
Reminder, the web is a not safe place.
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