One way to think of this is: why change what works, meaning MC is not a knowitall and also he certainly is no sub - the middle ground being that he does not listen like a simp but provides the hard, throbbing, long and deep adult entertainment to his beloved.
my main complaint is that the mc is such a fucking idiot
Faking ignorance to get ahead is a long professed method to get the girl in many relationship books, little talk with big gestures, always being misterious in what he does.
The girls keep coming for more, so there must be something right in his approach.
There are coountless IRL dramas where wifes simply dissapear from their family, forego children and loved ones to escape with some young dim wit who awakened something animalistic deep inside them - a story old as Troy and the reason the Trojan wars even existed - white knight literally stealing the girl from her home because she wanted to elope - the same story why Dunpeal Bloodlust was hired to return or kill the girl by her own father because she ran away with a vampire who ultimately actually did put all of his wealth, his existence and everything he ever was into the relationship with her, but the overbearing mountains of pressure put upon their relationship by both vampires and humans alike resulted in his literal cut in half and her drained of blood.
The fact that girls want a certain man is never something to rationalize, but something to work towards - even Hitch professed he was only providing the ”in” to the guy, making him attractive enough to talk to the girl, but it was always the girl who had the power to get to know the man and decide about him - the sheer fact that many girls do not go beyond carnal attraction - the fact that, most of the time, they do not care about the brains or worth of the adonis they fall for if he scratches their itch - or the fact that if the guy can provide then they will stay with him, faithful or not, but they will come back to the guy that gives them the home and the shoulder to cry on however many escapades he or she elopes to in the mean time.
A Petal Among Thorns, A Moment of Bliss, and Over the Moon.
Finally made it over the moon with the state of bliss in our hearts .. gonna try and preserve it:
Is this how you keep tour bliss of being over the moon with joy?
O.K.