DarkLordVN this is from the walkthrough you can find linked at the bottom of the OP of this thread:
1. After getting the „Control your lust“ quest (see Mira's quest 3.) buy Anesthetic from his [Lucius'] shop
2. Walk over to the witches cottage. Talk to her. Select option 3 (even if you don't plan to do so)
3. Make sure (lust<80) talk to her again and ask „About my situation“ - Distract her. While she is up looking for her potions walk over to her cauldron and put in the Anesthetic (Alternatively to using the Anesthetic, If you already did Gwen's quest you can wait until she leaves the room and then search the bookshelve)
4. Hide outside the room
5. Search the book shelves until you find a book about potions (You will only find the book if you've learned reading, see Mira. It's on the left side and you have to complete an int-check)
Each month there are two updates to the main content, and then one to two updates for the bonus content, depending on if he needed to split up the bonus content updates. Sometimes he is a couple days late, but we always get the promised updates every month.
It's also nice that updates, both for main content and for bonus content, are always based on votes by patrons in monthly polls. Even if the option you voted for didn't get picked that month, your vote carries forward to be added to future tallies, so your vote always ends up counting.