L&P is a guy. I don't know what voice you heard, but certainly the first time in 7 years that someone said there's conference calls on his Discord with L&P talking to subscribers, especially not on a weekly basis. Never has anyone ever mentioned something like that. Even Bibifoc, his own coder, referred to L&P plenty of times as a male.
His whole being screams "I'm a dude.". The way he behaves, his writing, everything. Pretty sure there's devblogs of him talking about wanting to spend time with his girlfriend even.
So... Really curious where you get this conference call thing from?
I don't see gender in the text at all (English isn't even his language, maybe he uses a translator at all.

), but I would say a lot of people were patrons, if they ever want to reveal some things I'd be fine with it, but I won't do it myself.
His stories are the last thing I'd believe in, fitness, girls. (Given that he's constantly lying and contradicting himself)
Did you ever wonder that the people who wrote spoilers about Aiden's 3rd mission before the update came out, pretty much describing all the events, where did they get that information from?
A very simple high level subscription allows you to do different things and directly learn about the game first hand.
(After all, everyone has the ability to test it, just doesn't seem very justifiable to me).
Maybe he was using a woman's voice to be anonymous, that's not for me to question, but the fact that it was.