If you think that this game is not porn ... then tell me if you would like your wife, if she is ... to see you all as Sophia in this game? Would you want a wife like that? A bitch yes, but not a wife... guess what?!
I recommend that you read the works of Anais Nin. If you do there will be no need for debates of this type. Porn can be literature. It can have a decent story & be well written. It can be genuinely for adults, as opposed to some of the flesh-slapping garbage that has been churned out for centuries & which we usually discover as schoolboys, or girls.
Porn books & images are almost as old as the invention of printing, although it's unlikely anyone alive today would be turned on by the 15th century woodblock prints that late medieval people found erotic. It has always had its' extremes. Porn films ended up in the same situation as literature & most porn on camera is garbage, or worse. Sometimes, however there comes along a well-acted movie, with a decent script.
When I started playing AWAM, I believed that L&P was ambitious to try to produce something a cut above the basic porn game. He has stuck to this concept, with the notable exception of Sophia's frat-boy pleasing magical expanding boobs. At present, as for much of the last couple of years, AWAM's realism has hung in the balance but IMO, it is still on the right side of the good/bad storyline & apart from the abysmal update schedule is still enjoyable.
Anyone wanting porn has more choice now than there has ever been in the history of humankind. AWAM is game porn of a high standard. I've seen & read a lot of the stuff, on & off, over the years. Whatever people think of my views, I don't care that much but I know what I'm talking about. Others are free to disagree but WE wouldn't be here if AWAM was just about, "bending her over."