I don't understand the point of this post. It is a strange mix of your own prejudices and the prejudices you perceive exist in society. Also, I do not get why do you try to analyze AWAM (a porn game) in the context to 3rd wave feminism? It's already nonsensical to try to infer the gender of the author from the content of the game, but then to also try to link this to 3rd-wave feminism is just useless jibberish.
AWAM is a fucking porn game. Such games are intentional filled with stereotypes and exaggerations. Moreover, there are various scenes in the game that contradict your statements. For example, the game has both strong female characters (like Patrica and Marie) and those who are more conservative and weak in decision making (like Sophia) or even shy (like Emma). Also, If you look at Dylan and Sam as the male "heroes" in this game, you can see that they both come off quite well. This is at max neutral and absolutely not 3rd wave feminism.
The only thing someone can really blame L&P for is the high number of villains (which are actually all male). But here I would not blame feminism, but simply L&P's tendency to incorporate the same idea over and over again into the story. This is simply bad gamedesign. In the end, however, AWAM follows the normal porn logic in most of its storylines, which I think is the right decision for a porn game.
Everyone has two sides.
In the post above, I explained why this ambivalence arises.
The starting point for me to form an opinion about whether this developer was a woman or a man was for a rather trivial reason.
I commented that this game was very feminine in many parts and that the developer seemed very ignorant of male culture.
That's all I was saying and then someone said "This developer is a woman" and the fire started, but then someone said again "It was a joke" and that's how the conversation ended.
Recently, someone said, "I know someone who worked with this developer, and this developer is a woman," and the debate started again, and I joined in because I had my own thoughts.
As I've written before, it doesn't matter to me whether the developer is a woman or a man.
Regardless of whether this developer is a woman or a man, to me, the fact that this developer is ignorant of male culture remains the same.
However, what is helpful to me is that it helps me determine how the developer is trying to take this game forward.
That's it.
I haven't yet decided whether this developer is a woman or a man, and even if this developer is a woman, I'm not sure if it's feminist.
However, if this developer were a woman, it is assumed that she would have been influenced by feminist ideas.
The basis for this has already been written in the post above.
And I don't understand why you react so sensitively to the comment, "This developer might be a woman."
As you said, this developer has been criticized for her many mistakes, frequent lies, and irresponsibility.
She has never been criticized because this developer might be a woman. Even now.