The two scenes that often trigger ntr haters are the vampire on mom/Julia and the werewolf on sister/Lucy. Those are both RAPE scenes, not ntr. To be ntr both participants agree to have sex, not so in a rape scenario. Rape is an act of violence.
The other scenes that set ntr haters off are the situations where aunt Emma and cousin Olivia are possessed by evil spirits in the form of the suicidal ghost, Ava, and her abusive dead lover. Those are also not of the person's own freewill. They have no choice in the matter. Therefore, it is NOT ntr but rather a spiritual possession that is causing the situation.
I am NOT a fan of ntr, rape or possession yet I do respect that the dev is telling us some rather strange and, in some cases, horrific stories that DO have some elements of horror, hence the rape and possession scenes. Both scenarios are horrific but in no way represent ntr. You walk in on your wife fucking the cable guy of her own free will... Yes, THAT is ntr. It is also cheating. It is also cause enough for me to end that relationship. If your wife wants to have affairs with other guys and you agree, that is also ntr. However, I don't think ntr applies if you and your wife/primary LI agree to have other women join you for sex. TBH, I'm no expert and won't pretend to be. But, rape and possession are rape and possession, not ntr.
Again, I do not enjoy ntr, cuckolds or cheating as a rule but horror is horror, not ntr.
Hope that helps. Adventure ever on friend, Phat
