For me, i've yet to find a romance who work with harem. Like i said earlier, how can you say that you love someone very much, that you will be forever here for her, etc... and banging someone else the next day? Yeah it can work i suppose but you will be on the superficial level with each woman. You can't be with each woman "until death do us part" if you have already have to separate your time with multiple woman. In essence, having multiple romance at the same time weaken each of these romance.
Also it's weird if the woman herself aren't getting in love with each other too. If trouple count, some game are really trying like BaDIK, but i'm not sure we are here to my liking yet. (and i'm not sure the dev will not end the trouple whatever you do)
So i don't close the door to be able to see a good harem with romance one day; but i don't think i will find that.
Because some people can say they love someone.... and then fuck someone else? Just because
you can't do it, doesn't mean others can't. Love, emotions, and attachments made, don't just work one way. Like this whole thing sounds more like
you can't do it,
you can't manage it, or
you can't get into, therefore. That ain't how life works. I like many others, have played harem games. I like many others, grow to care about many, some, or all the LI's. Depending on the game. And because
you personally can't get into what's on offer. And haven't found that one game to give you the multiple warm and fuzzies. Does not = it doesn't work.... it doesn't work for
you.
My love for LI's won't magically disappear because there are multiple. I have had no issue spending whatever allotted time a dev will allow, with multiple women. And coming out the other end with all of them. If the characters are done right. I would have little issue, caring for 1, 2, or more of the current LI's on offer. Because I think most of them are well done in this game. I'll admit that it gets a bit much when the number is huge. But that's just me. I wouldn't then take my inability to get onboard with it. To make the blanket statement of it wouldn't work. That's the only thing I was commenting on.