I suppose some of the people who complain about lesbian sex actually are turned off by the idea of same-sex interaction, but I think most of the people making that complaint are more up in arms about the idea of "their" girl doing anything with someone other than themselves, and by "themselves" I mean the MC, who they project themselves upon.
Some of them are less offended if they're with two or more at a time and they play together while playing with "you" but it boils down to the same thing.
Basically, if someone comes to a Harem game and they only want girl(s) on MC, and the game forum TELLS them that there will be more than that, and they STILL play the game and get publicly upset and demand the devs change the game FOR THEM, that's a special kind of Troll™ behavior and should warrant 20 lashes and a giant ban-hammer (IMHO).
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